na Patricia Hughes
ʻElua mau kula noʻonoʻo e pili ana i nā lole hānai. Manaʻo kekahi mau wāhine he mea hoʻopau kālā. Kūʻai pinepine kēia mau wahine i hoʻokahi a ʻelua mau mea a hoʻopau i ke koena o ka manawa i ka hou a me nā pālule o kā lākou kāne. Manaʻo kekahi he manawa maikaʻi ka hāpai ʻana a makemake lākou e leʻaleʻa i ke kūʻai ʻana i nā lole a me nā ʻaʻahu me ke ʻano. Manaʻo pinepine kēia mau wahine i ka waiwai o ke kālā.
He nui ka nui o nā wahine i hāʻule i waena o kēia mau mea ʻelua. Makemake mākou e nānā maikaʻi, akā ʻaʻole makemake mākou e hoʻolilo i ka waiwai. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ʻaʻahu ʻia nā lole makuahine no ka manawa palena ʻole a hiki i kekahi ke pipiʻi loa. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e uhaʻi i ka panakō e nānā maikaʻi i kou wā hāpai. Aia kekahi mau mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana e mālama i ke kālā a kūkulu i kahi ʻaʻahu nani.
ʻO kahi ala e mālama ai i ke kālā, ʻo ia ka hoʻonui ʻana i ka manawa hiki ke hoʻohana ʻia. ʻIke pinepine nā wahine hāpai i ka paʻakikī. Hoʻonui liʻiliʻi kou ʻōpū a ʻaʻole kūpono kou puʻuwai maʻamau. Kūʻai ʻoe i nā pants maternity a ua ʻoluʻolu loa lākou i ka wā mua, a hiki i ka nui ʻana o kou ʻōpū. Aia nā mea ʻokoʻa i ʻekolu mau ʻaʻahu, ma mua o ka hāpai ʻana, ka hāpai mua ʻana a me ka hāpai ʻana ma hope.
Aia kekahi mau huahana ma ka mākeke i hana ʻia e hoʻoponopono i kēia mau pilikia. He mau pūʻali kēia e hele a puni ka ʻōpū. Hiki ke hoʻohana ʻia ke kāʻei no ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i nā pants maternity i hemo loa. Hiki ke hoʻohana ʻia e hoʻopaʻa i nā pants hiki ʻole ke pihi hou. He ala maikaʻi ka hui e hoʻopau ai i kēlā puʻupuʻu inā ʻaʻole kūpono kou mau lole maʻamau a ʻoi aku ka nui o nā lole makuahine.
I ka hopena e pono ana ʻoe i nā lole hou. Hiki iā ʻoe ke kikoo lōʻihi. E noʻonoʻo i kou nohona a me ke ʻano o ka lole āu e pono ai. Hana ʻoe ma waho o ka home? He aha ke ʻano o ka lole e pono ai? Hele ʻoe i ka hale pule a i waho paha i ka ʻaina ahiahi a makemake ʻoe i nā lole nani no kēia mau hana? Ke ʻike ʻoe i kāu mea e pono ai, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaka i ke kūkulu ʻana i kou kapa lole.
ʻO kahi manaʻo mālama kālā ʻo ke kūʻai ʻana i nā ʻokoʻa, ma mua o nā lole. Hiki i ʻelua mau pants, kahi pālule a me ʻekolu pālule ke hana i ʻeiwa mau lole like ʻole, inā lōʻihi nā kala. Inā kūʻai ʻoe i nā mea kūʻai aku, hiki iā ʻoe ke kiʻi i nā mea hoʻokaʻawale maikaʻi no ke kumukūʻai o ʻelua a ʻekolu paha lole. E loaʻa iā ʻoe ka maʻalahi a me nā koho lole no ka liʻiliʻi kālā.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke kaʻana like i nā lole makuahine me kahi hoaaloha a pili paha. Ua hana au i keia me ko'u kaikoeke. Me kēlā me kēia pēpē, hōʻike mākou i nā mea i loaʻa iā mākou a hoʻohui i kekahi mau mea hou. Ke hele nei ka pēpē hou, hāʻawi mākou i nā lole i kekahi i kekahi. Ua like ia me ka loaʻa ʻana o nā lole ʻelua a ʻoiai ua hui pū ʻia, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kālā.
Ke kūʻai ʻoe i nā lole, e hana i kahi kūʻai hoʻohālikelike. Wehe nā hale kūʻai pūnaewele i kahi honua hou o nā kūʻai hoʻohālikelike. Hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa nā makana nui a me nā kumukūʻai hoʻomaʻemaʻe inā hoʻolilo ʻoe i kekahi manawa e nānā. Hāʻawi kekahi mau mea kūʻai kūʻai pūnaewele i ka hoʻouna manuahi ma nā kauoha ma luna o kahi kālā i hoʻonohonoho ʻia. Mālama kēia iā ʻoe i ke kālā hou aʻe.
Mai manaʻo hewa e pili ana i ka splurging i kahi lole nui a i ʻole nā lole nani no ka hana. ʻO ka ʻaoʻao kūpono o kou lolo e haʻi iā ʻoe ʻaʻole e ʻaʻahu lōʻihi nā lole, no laila no ke aha e hoʻopau ai i ke kālā? ʻOiai he ʻoiaʻiʻo kēia, pono ʻoe i nā lole kūpono, ʻoluʻolu a kūpono hoʻi i kāu hana a i ʻole kou nohona. Ma waho aʻe o kēia, pono a pono e hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻia nā wahine hāpai. Inā hauʻoli ʻoe i ke kūʻai ʻana i nā lole, e hele.
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He mea kākau kūʻokoʻa ʻo Patricia Hughes a he makuahine o ʻehā. Loaʻa iā Patricia kahi kēkelē laepua ma ke kula haʻahaʻa mai Florida Atlantic University. Ua kākau nui ʻo ia e pili ana i ka hāpai ʻana, ka hānau ʻana, ka hānai ʻana a me ka hānai ʻana. Eia kekahi, ua kākau ʻo ia e pili ana i ka hoʻonaninani home a me ka huakaʻi.
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