na Jennifer Shakeel
ʻO kekahi o nā manawa hauʻoli loa i ke ola o ka wahine ʻo ka lilo ʻana i makuahine. Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke kākau i kāu hāpai ʻana, ʻoiai inā ʻo kāu mua kēia. Hiki i kēia ke alakaʻi i nā wahine he nui e nīnau i ke ala maikaʻi loa e hana ai i kēia. E hilinaʻi maoli ka pane iā ʻoe. Inā ʻo ʻoe ke ʻano artsy hiki iā ʻoe ke hauʻoli i ka hoʻohui ʻana i kahi puke puke. Inā ʻaʻohe ou manawa a i ʻole makemake e hana i kahi mea kikoʻī, a laila ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka kākau moʻolelo a me ke kākau ʻana i kou mau manaʻo i loko o ka diary. A i ʻole e hoʻoholo paha ʻoe e hana ʻelua!
E hoʻomanaʻo he ʻokoʻa kāu puke moʻolelo hāpai / scrapbook ma mua o ka puke pēpē. E pili ana kēia iā ʻoe. Ma muli o ka manawa o kou hāpai ʻana e hoʻomaka ai ʻoe i kēia papahana e hilinaʻi maoli i ka kikoʻī o kāu puke. No ka laʻana, inā ʻoe e hoʻomaka i kēia ma hope o kou ʻike ʻana ua hāpai ʻoe, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokomo i ke kiʻi o ʻoe ma mua o ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka ʻōpū, malia paha he kope o ka hoʻāʻo ʻana a i ʻole nā hopena hōʻike. ʻO wau iho, makemake wau i ka puke pai, akā e hāʻawi wau iā ʻoe i ʻeono mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo wikiwiki e pili ana i ka hana ʻana i kāu memento hapai kūpono.
Manaʻo mua: E hoʻomaka koke ma hope.
Makemake mākou a pau e manaʻoʻaʻole mākou e poina i kekahi mea e pili ana i kā mākou hāpai ʻana, ʻoiai inā ʻo ia ka mea mua. Eia naʻe, e lawe mai iaʻu e hoʻomanaʻo paha ʻoe i nā manawa nui a poina i nā mea liʻiliʻi liʻiliʻi. No ka laʻana, e hoʻomanaʻo paha ʻoe i ka lā mua o kou kau hope, a e hoʻomanaʻo paha ʻoe i kou ʻike ʻana ua hāpai ʻoe, akā e haʻalulu iki ka lā. Inā makemake ʻoe e hoʻomanaʻo i nā mea a pau e pili ana i ia lā a laila e kākau i lalo i ka hikiwawe. E kahaha auaneʻi ʻoe i ka hana a nā mahina ʻelua i kou hoʻomanaʻo.
Manaʻo ʻElua: E kiʻi i nā kiʻi
Inā ʻoe e scrapbooking a i ʻole ka puke pai puke, e kōkua nā kiʻi i ka hoʻoulu ʻana i nā hoʻomanaʻo a e kōkua lākou e haʻi i ka mea āu e ʻike ʻole ai i nā huaʻōlelo. No ka laʻana i ka lā āu e kūʻai ai i kāu mea pēpē mua, ua uē wau me kaʻu kāne no kā mākou mea ʻekolu, i kekahi manawa e hoʻokomo i kēlā mea i loko o nā huaʻōlelo. ʻO kahi kiʻi me ka caption wikiwiki e ʻōlelo ʻo ia me ka ʻole e hōʻino ʻia.
Manaʻo ʻekolu: E Hoʻopono
ʻO wau iho ʻakaʻaka i kēia ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo, akā maikaʻi maoli nō ia. Pono ʻoe e hoʻomanaʻo e hana maoli ana ʻoe i kēia puke no ʻoe a i kekahi lā i ka wā i nui ai kāu keiki a mākaukau e loaʻa i kāna keiki mua e hāʻawi ʻoe i kēia puke iā lākou, no laila e ʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻO ka maʻi kakahiaka… ʻaʻohe leʻaleʻa. ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o ke kaumaha… ʻaʻohe leʻaleʻa. Aia nā lā e nīnau ai ʻoe i ke kumu o ka honua āu i hoʻoholo ai e hana i kēia, a hilinaʻi iaʻu e loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi hoʻomanaʻo wikiwiki akā pono nā palapala āpau. E ʻakaʻaka ʻoe ke nānā ʻoe i hope a heluhelu ʻia a mahalo kāu keiki i nā kānalua a me nā nīnau a me nā manaʻo i loaʻa iā lākou.
Manaʻo ʻEhā: E hoʻokomo i nā ʻike āpau
E kākau i nā hōʻailona mua āu i ʻike ai a i ka wā hea. He aha kāu i hana ai e hoʻopau iā lākou. E ana iā ʻoe iho e mālama i kou ulu ʻana. ʻO ka manawa mua ʻoe i ʻike ai i ka neʻe ʻana o ka pēpē. E mālama i nā kipa kauka a me nā mea āu i aʻo ai a lohe ai a ʻike paha ma ia mau kipa.
Manaʻo ʻElima: E hoʻokomo i nā kiʻi Ultrasound
Ma muli o kou kūlana hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopau me ka ʻoi aku o hoʻokahi ultrasound, no koʻu hāpai ʻana ʻekolu ua loaʻa iaʻu he 7. E lawe i kēlā mau kiʻi a palapala i ka ulu ʻana o nā pēpē i loko ou. He mea leʻaleʻa ke nānā i hope i ka wā i puka ai ke pēpē. Hoʻolaʻa ʻia ka ʻaoʻao mua o ka album kiʻi a kaʻu mau keiki i kā lākou kiʻi ultrasound, e like me ke kolu.
Manaʻo ʻeono: Hopu i ka ʻauʻau pēpē
ʻO kekahi o nā makana nui loa o ka hāpai ʻana ʻo ia ka Baby Shower. E mālama pono ʻoe i kope o ka kono, nā papa inoa malihini, nā pāʻani i pāʻani ʻia, nā meaʻai, nā makana, pehea kou manaʻo i ka wā ʻauʻau pēpē. I kekahi manawa ke hāpai ʻoe i kēlā mau hormones i loko a ʻike ʻoe i nā mea lapuwale e hoʻohauʻoli loa iā ʻoe. E kākau e pili ana iā ia, e hoʻokomo i loko o kāu puke puke a i ʻole ka puke pai.
ʻO kou hāpai ʻana kēia, he mea nui e mālama pono ʻoe iā ia e like me kou makemake. ʻAʻole ia he mea nui inā he puke puke, he diary, a he puke moʻolelo paha, ʻo ke kumu wale nō ke kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻomanaʻo i kona ʻano. E ʻike ʻoe aia nā lā paʻakikī ma ke ʻano he makuahine hou, ke noʻonoʻo maoli ʻoe no ke aha ʻoe i hana ai i kēia, ke huhū ʻoe, ke hāʻule ʻoe… ʻaʻole e hānau hou ʻoe. I loko o kēia mau kūlana hiki iā ʻoe ke puka i waho o kēlā puke pai a i ʻole puke puke a hoʻomanaʻo i ka nani o ka hāpai ʻana.
Manaʻo wau ʻo Erma Bombeck ka mea i ʻōlelo maikaʻi loa i kou ʻike ʻana e make ana ʻo ia i ka maʻi kanesa. Hana ʻo ia i ka papa inoa o kāna mea e hana ai inā loaʻa iā ia ka manawa e ola ai i kona ola ma luna o kāna mea e hoʻololi ai. ʻO kekahi o ia mau mea i ke ola āna e makemake ai e noho a hoʻololi i ke ʻano o kona noho ʻana, ʻo ia ka hāpai ʻana.
ʻO kēia kāna i ʻōlelo ai, "Ma mua o ka makemake e haʻalele i ʻeiwa mahina o ka hāpai ʻana, ua makemake wau i kēlā me kēia manawa a ʻike wau ʻo ka ulu ʻana o ka pīhoihoi i loko oʻu ʻo ia wale nō ka manawa o ke ola e kōkua ai i ke Akua i kahi hana mana.
He mea kākau ʻo Jennifer Shakeel a he kahu hānai ma mua o 12 mau makahiki o ka ʻike olakino. Ma ke ʻano he makuahine o nā keiki maikaʻi ʻelua me hoʻokahi ma ke ala, eia wau e haʻi aku iā ʻoe i nā mea aʻu i aʻo ai e pili ana i ka makua a me nā hauʻoli a me nā loli i ka wā hāpai. Hiki iā mākou ke ʻakaʻaka a uē a hauʻoli i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo he mau makuahine mākou!
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