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E like me kēia he manawa hoʻohauʻoli a hoʻopaʻapaʻa no ʻoe, pēlā nō hoʻi no ka makuakāne. Eia kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e kōkua i ka makua kāne e hoʻomākaukau no ka hānau ʻana...

makuahine a me ka makua a me ke keiki hānau houE like me kēia he manawa hoʻohauʻoli a hoʻoweliweli iā ʻoe, pēlā nō hoʻi no ka makuakāne. ʻO ka mea pōʻino, hoʻopoina mākou i ke kuleana o ka makuakāne a me nā manaʻo o ka makuakāne. Manaʻo wale mākou e noʻonoʻo ʻo ia a hana i ka mea i manaʻo ʻia iā ia i ka wā e hoʻomaka ai nā ʻokiʻoki, hiki mai ka pēpē a pono e mālama ʻia nā mea. A laila, e ʻoiaʻiʻo kāua, huhū mākou i ka hana ʻole ʻana o ka makuakāne i ka mea a mākou e manaʻo ai. E nā wāhine, e like me ka mākaukau no ka hānau keiki, pēlā nō ka makua kāne. No laila e kōkua kākou iā ia.

ʻO ka mea mua e pono e ʻike ʻia e nā mākua kāne e kali ana ʻo ia kahi o ka haukapila. Mai ʻakaʻaka a poina paha i kēia ʻike nui. ʻAʻole ʻoe makemake e manaʻo ua ʻike ʻo ia i hea ʻo ia a ma hea ʻo ia e hele ai. Ma kahi a mākou i noho ai ma mua, hele ka wahine hana i ka ER a laila hoʻouna ʻia i ka hana a me ka hānau ʻana. Ma kahi a mākou e noho nei i kēia manawa, a ʻo ka haukapila a mākou e hele ai, he ʻāpana hana kaʻawale ko lākou, kahi āu e hele pololei ai. No laila pono ʻo ka makuakāne e ʻike pehea e hele ai i laila mai ka hana, a pono ʻo ia e ʻike i kahi e hele ai.

Pono ʻo Pāpā e ʻike i ka mea i manaʻo ʻia iā ia i ka wā o ka hana a me ka hānau ʻana. Aia ʻo ia i loko o ka lumi? Ke hoʻonoho nei ʻoe iā ia i ka mālama ʻana i ka poʻe i loko a i waho o ka lumi lawe? Manaʻo wau makemake ka hapa nui o nā makuakāne e noho i loko o ka lumi hānai, akā ʻaʻole mākaukau nā makuakāne a pau e ʻike i kā lākou mau hoa hana i ka hana maoli a me ka hānau ʻana. No laila e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kāu mea e manaʻo nei, a e hoʻolohe i kāna mea e makemake ai, i kāna mau hopohopo.

He mau keiki ʻē aʻe kāu? Na wai e mālama iā lākou? E noʻonoʻo kākou, hiki i ka makua kāne ke noho i hoʻokahi wahi i ka manawa. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke manaʻo aia ʻo ia ma ka haukapila me ʻoe, ma ka hana a ma ka home e mālama i nā keiki. No laila e hoʻāʻo e hoʻonohonoho i ke kōkua no ka makuakāne. Hiki paha iā ia ke nīnau i nā ʻohana ʻelua a i ʻole nā ​​hoaaloha inā makemake lākou e hana i ka ʻaina ahiahi no kou ʻohana oiai ʻoe i ka haukapila. Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke nīnau i kekahi o lākou inā hiki iā lākou ke noho i nā keiki i hiki i ka makua ke hele i ka haukapila me ʻoe a me kāu pēpē.

E ʻoluʻolu, e hoʻāʻo e hōʻoia i ka pau ʻana o ka holoi lole a aia nā meaʻai hiki i ka makuakāne ke hoʻomākaukau e hānai iā ia iho a me nā keiki ma ka home. E hōʻoia i ka ʻike o ka makuakāne i ka wā e kiʻi ai ke kaʻa a hoʻokuʻu i nā keiki nui i maopopo iā ia aia ʻo ia ma laila a i ʻole hiki iā lākou ke komo i loko o ka hale. E hoʻopaʻa pono i nā meaʻai kakahiaka a me nā meaʻai i hiki ke hoʻopiha i ka ʻaina awakea. A i ʻole e hōʻoia i ka loaʻa kālā o kāu mau keiki e kūʻai ai i ka ʻaina awakea ma ke kula.

E hōʻoia e hoʻolilo ʻoe i ka manawa me ka makuakāne kahi āu e kamaʻilio ai no ka lā nui. E ʻike inā he hopohopo, hopohopo a hopohopo paha e pili ana i ka lā hānau. ʻOiai ʻoe e lilo i mau mākua, pono ʻoe e hoʻomanaʻo he kāne ʻoe ma mua. ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke koʻikoʻi i kēia. Hoʻopau pinepine nā kāne i ka pilikia ma hope o ka hiki ʻana mai o ka pēpē no ka mea mālama ʻole ʻia ka pilina. He mau makemake, makemake, makemake a me kou mau manaʻo a he mau manaʻolana kou, makemake, pono, makemake a me kou hopohopo a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kou alo i kēia manawa ʻaʻole ʻoe a me kou makuakāne i ka ʻaoʻao hoʻokahi ma kekahi o ia mau mea. E mālama i nā laina o ke kamaʻilio e wehe a ikaika. Mai poina he kāne ʻolua a pono e hānai ʻia e like me ka pēpē.

No ke kōkua ʻana i ka makua kāne e mākaukau, pono ʻoe e mālama i nā mea liʻiliʻi naʻaupō e like me ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana i ka ʻeke o ka haukapila e hele. E hoʻomākaukau i ka ʻeke "hoʻihoʻi mai i ka home". E hōʻoia he noho kaʻa kāu a ʻike kēlā makuakāne i hea ia. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i hoʻomākaukau mua i kēia mau mea a laila pono ʻoe e mahalo i nā mea a ka makuakāne e lawe mai ai i ka haukapila. ʻAʻole pili inā pili ia, a inā paha ʻo ia inā ua koho ʻoe.

Inā lawe ʻoe i ka manawa e kamaʻilio ai me kāu hoa, e hoʻolohe i ka mea a lākou e ʻōlelo nei a hana pū e hoʻomākaukau no ka lā hoʻouna e holo pono nā mea a pau.

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