na Jennifer Shakeel
Ke kokoke mai nei ka lā makuahine, a ʻike wau he nui nā makuahine e manaʻo nei i laila ʻaʻole hiki ke kali a hiki i ka wā e hoʻolauleʻa ai i ko lākou lā makuahine mua. Manaʻo ʻoe, ʻaʻohe kumu e kali ai lākou. He nui nā manaʻo makana maikaʻi loa e hoʻohauʻoli ai ka makuahine e kali ana. ʻAe, ma ke ʻano he makuahine hiki iaʻu ke haʻi aku iā ʻoe ʻaʻohe mea ma ka honua e like me ka makana mua o ka lā makuahine home mai kāu keiki liʻiliʻi, akā paʻakikī ke kali ʻana i kēlā manawa. No laila, no ka poʻe a pau i ʻike i ka Māmā ma ke Kali ʻana, eia kekahi mau manaʻo makana maikaʻi e kōkua e hōʻike ma aneʻi i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka hauʻoli o ka makuahine.
ʻO ka manaʻo mua, e kiʻi i ka makuahine i lā hoʻomaha ma kahi spa kūloko. He makana maikaʻi kēia no kēlā me kēia makuahine, akā ʻoi aku ka makuahine e hoʻohauʻoli nei i ke keiki liʻiliʻi i loko o ka ʻōpū. ʻO kahi lomilomi hāpai, pedicure (ʻoi loa no ka makuahine ʻaʻole hiki ke ʻike hou i kona manamana wāwae) a ʻo ka manicure kahi pūʻolo maikaʻi loa e hōʻoia i ka manaʻo o Mom to Be e like me ka miliona kālā ma ka lā makuahine.
ʻO ka manaʻo makana o ka lā makuahine no ka makuahine he ʻano ultrasound hou. Ma kahi o ka ʻeleʻele a me ke keʻokeʻo maʻalahi, hiki iā ʻoe ke kiʻi i ka makuahine i 3D, 4D a i ʻole ultrasound imaging thermal. E kamaʻilio me ka OB/GYN kahi e hele ai ka makuahine i kahi e hoʻouna ai i kā lākou mau maʻi no ka ultrasound a laila e kelepona i kēlā keʻena e kūʻai i palapala makana. Aia kekahi mea kupanaha loa i ka ʻike ʻana i kāu pēpē, aia nō i loko, me he kanaka liʻiliʻi lā i ke ao maoli.
Inā hoʻokahi mea a kekahi mau makuahine hāpai i hoʻomāhuahua ai i ka wā e hāpai ai lākou he mau lole moe. Hoʻopau maʻamau mākou i nā pahu pahu a i ʻole nā pants flannel o kā kā mākou kāne, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā pālule a i ʻole nā huhū. He pupule maoli, akā, he mea a mākou e noʻonoʻo ʻole ai. ʻAʻole kōkua ia i ka nui o nā hale kūʻai pōhaku lepo a me nā hale kūʻai paʻa i hoʻopau i ka ʻoihana hānai. E ʻimi i ka makuahine a me ka makuahine a i ʻole e nānā i kekahi o nā haneli o nā pūnaewele pūnaewele no nā pjs wahine "Maikaʻi wau" no ka makuahine. He mea hoʻomanaʻo mālie ʻae e lilo koke mākou i makuahine, akā he wahine ʻuʻuku nō mākou a ʻike ʻoe iā mākou pēlā.
ʻO kekahi o kaʻu manaʻo makana punahele aʻu i ʻike ai he album kiʻi. ʻAʻole puke pēpē ʻē aʻe, akā e hoʻolōʻihi i kahi manawa a hōʻiliʻili i nā kiʻi o ka makuahine i loko o kona ola ma mua o ka hāpai ʻana. E hoʻohui iā lākou a pau i loko o kahi album kiʻi maikaʻi, e hoʻohui paha i kekahi mau captions a hāʻawi iā Mom to Be. Pono wau e haʻi iā ʻoe ma ke ʻano he makuahine o ʻekolu ʻaʻole wau e hoʻomanaʻo i ke ola ma mua o nā keiki. ʻAʻole wau e hoʻololi i kahi lā i loaʻa iaʻu me lākou a i ʻole e loaʻa pū me lākou, akā i kekahi manawa he mea maikaʻi ke loaʻa ka manawa "ʻAe ʻae.."
Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe ke akamai noʻonoʻo, hiki iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo e kiʻi i nā kāleka "Mahalo" āpau a hoʻopaʻa ʻia / hoʻonani iā lākou no ka makuahine. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokomo i ka helu hoʻihoʻi ma ka envelopp a kau i kahi hōʻailona no ka makuahine. He mea nui nā kāleka mahalo no nā makana a pau āu e loaʻa mau ai no ka pēpē i kona hiki ʻana mai, akā me kahi pēpē hou i loaʻa ka manawa e noho ai a hoʻopiha i nā mea a pau. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokomo i kahi memo maʻamau akā naʻau i loko. "Mahalo nui iā ʻoe no kou makana puʻuwai."
ʻO ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo hope ʻo ia ka lā hoʻomaha no ka makuahine. E hoʻonohonoho i kahi lā e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hele, a i ʻole e hoʻolimalima i kekahi e hele e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ka hale a i ʻole e holoi lole no ka makuahine. ʻOi aku ka nui o ka hāpai ʻana, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hele ʻana mai o kekahi e hoʻomāmā iki i ko mākou ola. ʻOiaʻiʻo, he ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo maikaʻi loa ia inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ma luna. E noʻonoʻo i nā mea e maʻalahi ai ke ola o ka makuahine i kona wā e ulu ana i kahi pēpē nani i loko.
Kawaihae
He mea kākau ʻo Jennifer Shakeel a he kahu hānai ma mua o 12 mau makahiki o ka ʻike olakino. Ma ke ʻano he makuahine o nā keiki maikaʻi ʻelua me hoʻokahi ma ke ala, eia wau e haʻi aku iā ʻoe i nā mea aʻu i aʻo ai e pili ana i ka makua a me nā hauʻoli a me nā loli i ka wā hāpai. Hiki iā mākou ke ʻakaʻaka a uē a hauʻoli i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo he mau makuahine mākou!
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