na Jennifer Shakeel
ʻO kekahi o nā mea pōʻino loa e hiki ke hana i ka wā e hāpai ana ʻoe he hāʻule ʻole. ʻO ka hāʻule ʻana ka mea i hana ʻia i ka wā e hāpai ʻia ai ka makuahine i nā pule he 20 mua o ka hāpai ʻana, inā nalowale ʻoe i ke keiki ma hope o nā pule he 20, ua manaʻo ʻia ʻo ia he hānau mua a hānau ʻia paha. He mea weliweli kēia mau mea a pau a hiki ke hoʻopōʻino i kekahi makuahine e kali ana. Noʻonoʻo, ʻōlelo wau he makuahine, ʻaʻole wahine e like me ka ʻōlelo a nā wahi he nui. Ua hoʻoholo wau e hoʻohana i ka makuahine ma muli o koʻu ʻike ponoʻī me ka hāʻule ʻole.
No ʻoukou ka poʻe i heluhelu i kaʻu mau ʻāpana hāpai ʻē aʻe, ʻike wau i ka makahiki i hala aku nei he wā lōʻihi a paʻakikī hoʻi koʻu hāpai ʻana i hopena i kekahi o nā kaikamahine liʻiliʻi loa aʻu i ʻike ai. ʻAʻole paha i ʻike ka poʻe he nui kaʻu kāne me aʻu i hoʻokahi makahiki i ka hāpai ʻana a ua hāʻule mākou ma ke ala.
Ua hoopau loa ke kauka i loaa ia'u ia manawa. Ua haʻi mai ʻo ia iaʻu ʻaʻole paha wau i hāpai, a he wā kaumaha wale nō ia. Eia naʻe, ua lōʻihi ka manawa a māua me kaʻu kāne i hoʻāʻo ai, a i kēlā manawa… ua lawe mākou i 4 mau hoʻokolohua hāpai ʻokoʻa i hoʻokahi pule… ua maikaʻi kēlā me kēia. A laila loaʻa iaʻu ka maʻi maʻi maʻi, loaʻa ka mahana o 108 a ua pōʻino. Ua ʻeha au… a ua nui ke koko… ʻaʻole naʻe he koko wale nō. I kēia manawa, me kaʻu keiki mua, ua kahe au i ke koko i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka hāpai ʻana, akā ʻokoʻa kēia a ʻo ia kaʻu i haʻi aku ai i ke kauka. ʻO wai ka mea i hoʻomaka e puhi iaʻu a lawe mākou i kahi hōʻike hōʻike hāpai mimi ma ke keʻena a maikaʻi ʻole. Ua hala au ma ke ala i waho o ke keʻena, ʻo māua me kaʻu kāne me ka waimaka… ʻeha loa.
ʻAʻole a hiki i koʻu hāpai hou ʻana, a hele i kahi kauka hou a me kahi Geneticist e haʻi ana iā lāua ʻelua i ka mea i hana ʻia, nānā mai ke kauka iaʻu a ʻōlelo mai, "Ua hāpai ʻoe," wehewehe ka geneticist i ka mea i hana ʻia a nānā mākou. ina paha e hiki hou mai ana. Pono ʻoe e ʻike i kēia, ʻaʻole hiki ke pale ʻia ka 90% o ka hāʻule ʻana. ʻAʻohe mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana e pale aku iā lākou. Wahi a ka poʻe Geneticists, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā wahine i hāʻule ʻole a ʻaʻole maopopo iā ia no ka mea hiki koke ia ma hope o ka hoʻomomona ʻana o ka hua. Nānā lākou a noʻonoʻo wale lākou e loaʻa ana iā lākou ka manawa kaumaha ma mua o ka maʻamau.
ʻO ka hapa nui o kēlā mau hāʻule ma muli o nā pilikia chromosomal i loko o ka pēpē, a ʻaʻohe mea pili iā ʻoe. Aia kekahi hāʻule ma muli o nā kumu o waho e like me ka ʻai ʻole, ka maʻi, ke kaumaha, ka ʻeha makuahine, a i ʻole ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka lāʻau a me ka waiʻona. He mea nui e ʻike ʻoe i nā hana maʻamau e like me ka moekolohe, ka hana ʻana, ka nausea a me ka luaʻi ʻana a i ʻole ka hāpai ʻana i nā mea kaumaha ʻaʻole maʻamau ke kumu o ka hāʻule ʻana ke ʻole ʻoe e pilikia nui. He mea nui inā e hoʻāʻo ʻoe e hāpai a manaʻo paha ua hāpai ʻoe e kamaʻilio koke me kāu kauka.
ʻO ka hapa nui o ka hāʻule ʻole, me ka nānā ʻole i ke kumu, hiki ke hana ma waena o ka pule 7 a me 12 o ka hāpai ʻana. A inā e hiki mai ana, ʻaʻohe mea e hiki i kekahi ke hana e hoʻōki. I ko mākou hāpai hou ʻana ma hope o ka hāʻule ʻana, ua loaʻa iā mākou kekahi mau manawa weliweli loa me he mea lā e nalowale ana kēia pēpē. Kāhea ʻo ia i ke kauka me ka haʻalulu, e kelepona ʻo ia me aʻu a haʻi mai iaʻu, inā e hiki mai ana, ʻaʻohe mea hiki iā lākou ke hana e hoʻōki. A laila e hoʻouna ʻia au no kahi ultrasound e ʻike ai inā ʻaʻole mākou i hāpai.
Me kēia hāpai hope loa ua loaʻa iaʻu he 7 ultrasounds. ʻEhā o lākou i loko o ka trimester mua, ʻo ia ka lua i loaʻa iaʻu ʻoi aku ka ʻino… ʻaʻole haʻi mai ka ʻenehana iā mākou i kekahi mea a ʻaʻole mākou i ʻike i ka puʻuwai liʻiliʻi (ʻo ia ka puʻuwai puʻuwai) a i koʻu nīnau ʻana inā Ua maikaʻi nā mea a pau, ʻo kāna pane ʻana, "ʻAʻole mākou e ʻōlelo i kekahi mea, pono ʻoe e kali i ke kauka. "I ka manawa koke iaʻu, ma ke ʻano he kahu hānai mua, ʻo ia ka manaʻo ua hewa kekahi mea. ʻAʻole hiki iā ia ke ʻimi i ka puʻuwai, no laila ua hele ʻo ia e kiʻi i kekahi e hele mai e hoʻāʻo. ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke nānā aku. ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke ʻoluʻolu i ka ʻenehana ʻelua, nāna i ʻike i ka puʻuwai a me ka hauʻoli e hōʻike i ka maikaʻi o ka pēpē.
"Ma kahi ma waena o 10 a 20 ka nui o nā hapai i ʻike ʻia e pau i ka hāʻule ʻana. I nā manawa he nui, hiki i ka wahine ke hāʻule ʻole me ka ʻike ʻole ua hāpai ʻo ia. Ua manaʻo ʻia ua nalowale nā hua momona a pau. (http://www.babble.com/miscarriage-pregnancy-health-causes-risks)
No ka mea maʻamau ka hāʻule ʻana, ʻaʻole ia he maʻalahi. Hiki iā ʻoe ke manaʻo i ka naʻau, ke kaumaha a me ke kaumaha. He mea nui ʻoe e kamaʻilio me kekahi e pili ana i kou manaʻo, a kamaʻilio pū me kāu kauka lapaʻau e pili ana i kou pilikia.
Kawaihae
He mea kākau ʻo Jennifer Shakeel a he kahu hānai mua. Ma ke ʻano he makuahine o nā keiki maikaʻi ʻole ʻelua, eia wau e haʻi aku iā ʻoe i nā mea aʻu i aʻo ai e pili ana i ka makua. Ua loaʻa iā ADD kekahi o kaʻu mau keiki, ʻo kā mākou huakaʻi aʻo e hoʻokō i nā ʻōlelo me ka maʻi maʻi a me ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i ka mea maikaʻi loa no mākou he paʻakikī a hauʻoli. Ua ʻike ʻia kā mākou keiki ma kahi o ʻelua a me ka hapa makahiki i hala, a ua loaʻa iā mākou nā piʻi a me nā haʻahaʻa, nā hauʻoli a me nā kaumaha. Inā hiki iaʻu ke hāʻawi aku iā ʻoe i hoʻokahi lā o ka manaʻolana a i ʻole kekahi manaʻo e kōkua iā ʻoe a me kou ʻohana a laila ʻike wau ua hoʻokō ʻia kaʻu kumu.
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