na Patricia Hughes
ʻO nā inoa pēpē, he mau tausani ke koho mai. I kou wā hāpai, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻolilo i ka manawa kūpono e noʻonoʻo ai i nā inoa no kāu pēpē. Loaʻa paha iā ʻoe kekahi mau inoa ma mua o kou hāpai ʻana. Inā ʻaʻole, hiki i kahi puke inoa pēpē maikaʻi ke kōkua. Nui nā pūnaewele me nā ʻikepili o nā inoa pēpē āu e heluhelu ai. Ke loaʻa iā ʻoe ka inoa kūpono, pono ʻoe e kūkākūkā me kāu hoa. Nui nā mea e noʻonoʻo ai i ke koho ʻana i ka inoa kūpono no kāu pēpē. Eia kekahi mau nīnau e nīnau ai i ke koho ʻana i kahi inoa:
Pehea ke kani hoʻokahi a me kou inoa hope?
E haʻi i ka inoa me ka leo nui e lohe i ke kani ʻana. Ua hana kaʻu kāne i kēia me kā mākou kaikamahine ʻelua. ʻElua mau inoa āna i makemake ai a hoʻohālike ʻo ia e kāhea iā ia me ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā inoa ʻelua e ʻike ai i kāna makemake maikaʻi. I kēlā manawa, ʻakaʻaka wau iā ia, akā ua hana. Ke haʻi ʻana i ka inoa me kou inoa hope, e ʻike pono ʻaʻole lākou e mele. I ka hapanui o nā hihia, maikaʻi ka leo mua o ka inoa mua me ka inoa hope hoʻokahi a me ka hope.
He aha nā inoa inoa maʻamau no ka inoa āu e makemake ai?
Makemake ʻoe i nā inoa i hoʻohana ʻia no ka inoa āu i koho ai? ʻOiai inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻohana i ka inoa kapakapa, ʻaʻohe mea e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole e hoʻohana ʻia ia i ka wā e hele ai kāu keiki i ke kula. No ka laʻana, inā makemake ʻoe i ka inoa ʻo Zachary, akā inaina iā Zack, makemake paha ʻoe e koho i kahi inoa ʻē aʻe. Ke liʻiliʻi ka [tag-ice] pēpē [/tag-ice], iā ʻoe ka mana. E lilo ana ia mana ma hope aku. E hōʻoia i ka inoa he inoa kapakapa hiki iā ʻoe ke noho me.
He aha nā hua mua?
Ke koho ʻana i kahi inoa mua, waena a me hope, e noʻonoʻo i nā hua mua o kāu keiki. Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke nānā i kēia, akā ʻaʻole naʻe nā keiki o ke kula. He inoa maikaʻi ʻo Amanda Sarah Smith me nā hua mua pōʻino, e like me Frances Allen Thomson. E mālama pono i nā hua mua o ka inoa o kāu keiki ʻaʻole e kikoo i kekahi mea, ʻoi aku i nā mea e hiki ke alakaʻi i ka hoʻohenehene. Hiki i nā keiki ke hana ʻino.
Makemake ʻoe e hoʻohana i ka inoa ʻohana?
Koho kekahi poʻe i ka inoa o kahi lālā [tag-tec] ʻohana [/tag-tec] no kā lākou keiki. ʻO ka nui o nā inoa kahiko ke hoʻi mai nei i ke ʻano, ʻoiai ʻo nā mea ʻē aʻe i ka wā kahiko a ʻaʻole maikaʻi. Inā koho ʻoe i ka inoa ʻohana, e hoʻomaopopo ʻoe makemake i ka inoa. Ua kapa ʻia koʻu muli loa no koʻu kupuna wahine ʻo Madeleine. ʻO kēia ka mea e hoʻohanohano iā ia a no koʻu aloha nui i kona inoa.
Inā makemake ʻoe e hoʻohanohano i kahi kupuna, akā inaina i ka inoa, e noʻonoʻo ʻoe he inoa waena. Loaʻa kā mākou mau keiki ʻekolu i ka inoa waena o kahi kupuna. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake iā ia ma ke ʻano he inoa waena, e noʻonoʻo i ka moʻomeheu Iudaio a hoʻohana i ka hua mua o ka inoa. No ka laʻana, inā ʻo Joe ka inoa o kou kupuna kāne, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana iā Jacob a i ʻole Jason e hoʻohanohano i kona hoʻomanaʻo.
He aha ka manaʻo o ka inoa?
Ua koho kekahi poʻe i ka inoa no kona manaʻo. Ke heluhelu ʻoe i ka puke pēpē, e hoʻolohe i ke ʻano o nā inoa āu e makemake ai. Hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa i kahi mea nani a maikaʻi hoʻi.
He aha nā hui i loaʻa iā ʻoe ka inoa?
Ua hui pū kekahi mau inoa me lākou. Hiki i kēia mau hui maikaʻi a maikaʻi ʻole paha. Hiki paha i kekahi āu i makemake nui ai a i ʻole kekahi āu i launa ʻole ai i kou wā i ke kula. E hoʻokuʻu i nā inoa i loaʻa ka pilina maikaʻi ʻole iā ʻoe a i kāu hoa kāne.
Pehea ʻoe e ʻōlelo ai?
Ua kaulana nā huaʻōlelo i haku ʻia i nā makahiki i hala iho nei. He mea ʻokoʻa kēia a i ʻole hiki ke hoʻopilikia i kāu keiki. Inā paʻakikī ka haʻi ʻana a i ʻole ka haʻi ʻana i ka inoa, makemake paha ʻoe e noʻonoʻo hou i ka spelling. He mea paʻakikī ia no kāu keiki inā ʻaʻohe kanaka e haʻi pololei i kona inoa.
Pehea e kūkākūkā ai no ka inoa āu e makemake ai?
Ke loaʻa iā ʻoe ka inoa kūpono no kāu pēpē, pono ʻoe e hōʻoia i kāu hoa pili ʻo ia. Pono wale ʻoe e kūkākūkā me kāu hoa, ʻaʻole kou makuahine, makuahōnōwai wahine, kaikuahine a mau hoaaloha paha. Aia kekahi mau ala e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke kūkākūkā no ka inoa āu e makemake ai. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kahi papa inoa o kāu mau punahele ʻelima a ʻumi paha a hoʻohālikelike i nā papa inoa. Hiki i kekahi o ʻoukou ke koho i ka inoa mua aʻo kekahi e koho i ka inoa waena. Hiki i kekahi makua ke koho i ka inoa o ke kaikamahine, a o kekahi no ke kane. Inā inaina maoli kekahi o ʻoukou i ka inoa, pono e loaʻa i kēlā kanaka ka mana veto.
Kawaihae
He mea kākau kūʻokoʻa ʻo Patricia Hughes a he makuahine o ʻehā. Loaʻa iā Patricia kahi kēkelē laepua ma ke kula haʻahaʻa mai Florida Atlantic University. Ua kākau nui ʻo ia ma [tag-cat] hāpai ʻana [/tag-cat], hānau keiki, makua a me ka hānai ʻana. Eia kekahi, ua kākau ʻo ia e pili ana i ka hoʻonaninani home a me ka huakaʻi.
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