Kuko konke ukungaphatheki kakuhle oya kukufumana ngexesha lokukhulelwa, iintlungu ngexesha lokubeleka kunye nokunye ukuthamba onokuthi uzive kuzo zonke iinyanga ezilithoba, ukukhetha amagama omntwana kunokukwenza konke ukubandezeleka kwakho kube nexabiso. Ukuthiya umntwana kunokuba lula njengokusebenzisa igama likatatomkhulu wakho kwaye abanye abazali babonakala bexambulisana kangangeenyanga ezilithoba zokukhulelwa baze bagqibe kwelokuba bakhethe amagama omntwana ngoko nangoko xa bembona baze babhaqe igama elithile “limfanela”.
Kuko konke ukungaphatheki kakuhle oya kukufumana ngexesha lokukhulelwa, iintlungu ngexesha lokubeleka kunye nokunye ukuthamba onokuthi uzive kuzo zonke iinyanga ezilithoba, ukukhetha amagama omntwana kunokukwenza konke ukubandezeleka kwakho kube nexabiso.Ukuthiya umntwana kunokuba lula njengokusebenzisa igama likamkhulu wakho okanye ukubiza umntwana wakho usebenzisa inyanga azalwe ngayo, umzekelo, ngoMeyi. Abanye abazali babonakala bephikisana kwiinyanga ezilithoba zokukhulelwa baze bagqibe ngokukhetha amagama omntwana ngokukhawuleza xa bembona kwaye bafumanisa igama elithile "lifanelekile".
Njengabazali bomntwana oza kuzalwa kungekudala, wonke umntu okufutshane nawe uya kunika iingcebiso ekukhetheni amagama osana. Nangona unokufumana amagama ambalwa akhethekileyo ongathanda ukuba umntwana wakho abe nawo, ukukhetha igama elinye kuphela kumakhulu eengqokelela ezinqabileyo nezinentsingiselo kunokuba sisigqibo esibhidayo.
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Emva kokukhulelwa, umntwana wakho uya kuba ngumntu wakhe. Uxanduva lokuqala oya kulwenza kukugqiba ngegama lomntwana wakho, aza kulisebenzisa ubomi bakhe bonke. Ekubeni ukukhulelwa ngalunye kuthatha iinyanga ezilithoba, unalo lonke ixesha ehlabathini ukulungiselela uxanduva lwakho lokuqala.
Nangona kunjalo, ekubeni isini somntwana wakho asiyi kutyhilwa kude kube ngu-5th Kwinyanga yokukhulelwa, ukukhetha kwakho igama lomntwana kwangoko xa ufumanisa uvavanyo lokukhulelwa ukuba ulungile kusenokungabi ngumbono olungileyo. Ukuba uye wazinza kwigama lomntwana oyintombazana kwaye kwavela ukuba yinkwenkwe, lonke uphando lwakho kunye nengxoxo-mpikiswano aziyi kuba lilize.
Nje ukuba ugqibe isini somntwana wakho, wena neqabane lakho ngoku ningabhala amagama eniwathandayo enkwenkwe (ukuba umntwana wakho yinkwenkwe). Xa udwelisa amagama, ungagxininisi kwigama ngalinye. Gcina nje ukongeza amagama ambalwa kolu luhlu kwiiveki ezizayo ezizayo.
Ungaze ukhethe igama lomntwana ngokwakho. Ngexesha lokukhulelwa, isimo somzimba kunye neemvakalelo zowesifazane siyatshintsha, nto leyo ekwenza ube sesichengeni soxinzelelo kunye nezinye izigulo. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba iqabane lakho, usapho kunye nabahlobo banika iingcebiso zokwenza izinto zibe lula.
Amanye amaqabane angena kwingxoxo-mpikiswano engapheliyo xa ekhetha [i-tag-cat] amagama omntwana[/i-tag-cat]. Phambi kokuba uqalise ukungqubanisa ingqondo, qiniseka ukuba unesivumelwano neqabane lakho lokukhetha igama eniya kulithanda nobabini. Nangona kuya kubakho amagama oya kuwathanda ngelixa iqabane lakho lingayi kuphinda lithande, yiba nomonde kuba igama eligqibeleleyo liya kuzibonakalisa kuwe ngaphambi kokuba ukhulelwe.
Konke KuseGameni
Xa udibanise uluhlu olupheleleyo lwamagama, ngoku ungagweba igama ngalinye kuluhlu. Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokubona ukuba igama liya kumfanela na umntwana wakho kukongeza ifani kwigama “elicetywayo”. Yongeza [tag-tec]igama eliphakathi[/tag-tec] kwaye ucengceleze igama elipheleleyo izihlandlo ezininzi. Xa usiva igama elipheleleyo ekuqaleni, usenokuthanda isandi salo, kodwa njengoko uqhubeka ulicengceleza, usenokucinga ukuba elo gama alilunganga.
Ukuba ufuna igama elinentsingiselo, jonga uluhlu lwakho lwamagama abantwana kwaye uphande ngeenkcazo zabo. Oku kubalulekile kuba njengoko umntwana wakho ekhula kwaye ejongene nabanye abantwana, abo adlala nabo basenokwenza ezinye iindlela kunye nolunye upelo lwegama lakho elinokukhokelela kwiziqhulo ezingathandekiyo.
Xa iinyanga ezisibhozo sele zidlulile kwaye ukukhulelwa kwakho kuza kuphela kungekudala, kufuneka wenze isigqibo malunga namagama amane ubuncinane. Oku kuya kuqinisekisa ukuba ukuba umntwana uza, awuyi kuxabana malunga nokuba liliphi igama elimele libhalwe kwisatifikethi sokuzalwa.
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