Ukukhulelwa kungaba yisikhathi esinzima kumama okhulelwe kanye nesikhathi esididayo kuyise okhulelwe. Amanye amadoda azizwa enqanyuliwe noma ekhishwa inyumbazane lapho amakhosikazi awo ekhulelwe. Kuningi ongakwenza ukuze uzibandakanye futhi uzizwe uyingxenye yokukhulelwa. Ulwazi lungamandla, ngakho-ke chitha isikhathi ufunda ngokukhulelwa nokuzalwa. Sekela umkakho noma umlingani wakho ngokwabelana ngalesi sikhathi esikhethekile ezimpilweni zenu nobabili.
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Ukukhulelwa kungaba yisikhathi esinzima kumama okhulelwe kanye nesikhathi esididayo kuyise okhulelwe. Amanye amadoda azizwa enqanyuliwe noma ekhishwa inyumbazane lapho amakhosikazi awo ekhulelwe. Kuningi ongakwenza ukuze uzibandakanye futhi uzizwe uyingxenye yokukhulelwa. Ulwazi lungamandla, ngakho-ke chitha isikhathi ufunda ngokukhulelwa nokuzalwa. Sekela umkakho noma umlingani wakho ngokwabelana ngalesi sikhathi esikhethekile ezimpilweni zenu nobabili.
Funda Ngokukhulelwa
Chitha isikhathi ufunda ngokukhulelwa. Lokhu kuzokusiza uqonde ukuthi ubhekene nani futhi umsekele. Uzozizwa ungcono uma wazi kabanzi ngokukhulelwa nokubeletha. Funda izincwadi ezikhuluma ngokukhulelwa nokuzalwa. Incwadi Yokuzalwa kaWilliam no-Martha Sears iyisinqumo esihle. Ezinye izincwadi zinolwazi lweviki nesonto mayelana nokukhula kwengane yakho. Lokhu kungakusiza ukuthi ujabule ngomntwana njengoba ufunda ngokukhula kwakhe kwamasonto onke.
Khuluma nabanye obaba mayelana nokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Abangane abangobaba bangakunikeza ukuqonda okuthile ngokukhulelwa nokuba ubaba. Uma uzizwa ucindezelekile ngenxa yokukhulelwa, ukukhuluma nenye indoda kungakusiza uzizwe ungcono futhi kudambise noma yikuphi ukukhathazeka onakho mayelana nokuzalwa okuzayo noma ukuba ubaba.
Hambani Ikilasi Ndawonye
Ikilasi lokubeletha liyindlela enhle yokufunda ngokukhulelwa futhi ufunde ukuthi yini ongayilindela ngesikhathi sokuzalwa. Ukuthatha ikilasi ndawonye kuyindlela enhle yokusondeza wena nozakwenu. Njengoba ufunda ngenqubo yokuzala, uzoba umqeqeshi osebenza ngempumelelo. Uzozizwa ubandakanyeka kakhulu futhi usebenza ngempumelelo njengomqeqeshi lapho usuku olukhulu lufika.
Yenza umzamo wokuba khona kuwo wonke amakilasi. Uzofunda izindlela ezihlukahlukene zokuphefumula, ukuzivocavoca umzimba kanye nezinye izindlela zokubhekana nobuhlungu bokuzalwa kwengane. Zijwayeze lokhu ekhaya phakathi kwamakilasi kuze kufike osukwini lokuzalwa. Uma uzijwayeza kakhulu, lezi zindlela zizosebenza kahle kakhulu ngesikhathi sokubeletha. Ukuzilolonga nokulungiselela ukubeletha kuzokusiza uzizwe usondelene nomlingani wakho futhi uyingxenye yokukhulelwa.
Yiya Ezimisweni Zakhe
Noma nini lapho kungenzeka, yiya naye lapho ebonana khona nodokotela. Lokhu kungase kungabi lula ngaso sonke isikhathi ngeshejuli yakho yomsebenzi, kodwa hambela abaningi ngangokunokwenzeka. Uma ungakwazi ukuwenza wonke, yiya kuma-aphoyintimenti abaluleke kakhulu. Izikhathi ezibalulekile zokuqokwa zihlanganisa ukuvakasha kokuqala, isikhathi sokuqala lapho uzwa ukushaya kwenhliziyo yengane, i-ultrasound, ukuhlolwa kanye uma kuphakama izinkinga. Yiba khona ukuze wabelane ngezikhathi ezijabulisayo nezikhathi ezisabekayo.
Qonda futhi Usekele Mama
Umlingani wakho ngeke ahlale ejabule ngesikhathi ekhulelwe. Ukukhulelwa kuyamlimaza umuntu wesifazane. Angase akhathale, angakhululeki futhi abe namagqubu ngezinye izikhathi. Ukushintsha kwama-hormone kungaholela ekushintsheni kwemizwa phakathi nokukhulelwa. Zama ukuqonda futhi ungazithathi mathupha. Yiba khona ukuze umthande, umeseke futhi umduduze ngalesi sikhathi. Zama ukungagxeki kakhulu. Khumbula ukuthi lokhu kuzodlula futhi uzoba nguye futhi.
Dala Ikhasi Lewebhu Lengane Yakho
Uma unolwazi lwekhompyutha, cabanga ukwenza ikhasi lewebhu ukuze ugubhe ingane yakho. Dala ijenali eku-inthanethi ukuze ubhale amaphuzu aphezulu okukhulelwa. Faka izithombe ze-ultrasound kanye nesisu sakhe esikhulayo. Lokhu kuzokusiza uzizwe uhilelekile futhi ujabulile ngokukhulelwa. Ungabelana ngekhasi nomndeni nabangane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, udala isikhumbuzo esiyingqayizivele sengane yakho. Phrinta amakhasi encwadi yengane. Ungakwazi ukwengeza isimemezelo sokuzalwa nezithombe ngemva kokuzalwa kwengane yakho.
Biography
UPatricia Hughes ungumbhali ozisebenzelayo nomama wezingane ezine. UPatricia uneziqu zeBachelor in Elementary Education azithola eFlorida Atlantic University. Ubhale kabanzi ngokukhulelwa, ukubeletha, ukukhulisa izingane kanye nokuncelisa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ubhale mayelana nokuhlotshiswa kwekhaya kanye nokuhamba.
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Ngizizwa nginentshisekelo enkulu yokubambambiqhaza okhuthele kukho konke. Sinamadodakazi amabili, izinyanga ezi-2 1/2 neziyisi-8. Ngangiphelezela umkami cishe kuzo zonke izikhathi ayebonana ngazo nodokotela, futhi ngangikhona lapho ebeletha. Ngeshwa, okwesibili kwakunesiphithiphithi ngenxa yezimo ezingezinhle zasesibhedlela, udokotela wasukuma ezama ukuthola indawo yokupaka, noma ngabe yini, ngakho badebeselela ukunginika inkaba ukuze ngiyinqume. Ngokujabulisayo, ngaleso sikhathi sesibili, saba nokuhlangenwe nakho okuncane, ngakho sasizimisele ukukusebenzisa ngokugcwele naphezu kwalokho okwakwenzeka endaweni yethu. Umkami ungumuntu okhulumayo, ongabambeki, futhi sasihlale sixoxa ngokwenzekayo. Ngisacabanga ukuthi obaba bangathambekela ekubeni banganakwa phakathi nalesi sikhathi, futhi lokho kulungile, ngoba ingane ibaluleke kakhulu, okusho ukuthi kufanele kugxilwe kumama. Nokho, obaba kudingeka babe khona ngokomzwelo nangokomzimba. Umama udinga ukuphepha, ukukhululeka nokuthandwa. Ngiqiniseka ngokuphelele ukuthi umntwana ubonisa lokho. Sinezingane ezimbili ezinhle, ezijabule. Wonke umuntu uyaphawula ngendlela abajabule ngayo, ngakho akuyena nje ubaba oqhoshayo okhulumayo. Nginewebhusayithi enebhulogi kanye ne-albhamu yezithombe. Cishe sinezithombe ezingu-13,000 ezihlehlela emuva osukwini olungaphambi kokuzalwa kwendodakazi yethu yokuqala. Sinomndeni yonke indawo- New York, Florida, California, even China. Iwebhusayithi isiza ukusigcina sindawonye. Kuyinto enhle. Ngeke ngihwebe ngesipiliyoni sonke nganoma yini.