Uma usutholile ukuthi ukhulelwe, maduzane uzoqala ukucabanga ukuthi uzowutshela nini futhi kanjani umndeni wakho nabangane. Eminye imibhangqwana igcina iyimfihlo isikhashana kanti abanye abasakwazi ukulinda ukusakaza izindaba.
Kunamathuba angapheli ezindlela ezijabulisayo nezobuciko zokwabelana ngezindaba. Yiqiniso, ungase wenze isimemezelo embuthanweni omkhulu olandelayo womndeni futhi ukunakekele ngesikhathi esisodwa. Abanye abantu bakhetha indlela yomuntu siqu yokutshela abangani namalungu omndeni ngamunye noma ngamaqembu amancane.
Vumela ubuntu bakho bube umhlahlandlela wakho. Uma uthanda izimanga kanye nenjabulo, kunezindlela eziningi zokudala nezihlukile zokutshela umndeni wakho nabangane. Uma uzigodlile futhi ungazizwa ukhululekile ukwenza into enkulu, hamba ngendlela ecashile bese uvele utshele abantu ophilayo empilweni yakho mathupha noma ngocingo.
Ungasho kanjani:
Eminye imibhangqwana isebenzisa isipho esincane ukutshela ugogo nomkhulu noma amanye amalungu omndeni. Lesi kungaba isithombe se-ultrasound esinefreyimu, uma uke waba ne-ultrasound. Ihembe noma inkomishi efundeka kanje “Ngiyamthanda Ugogo” noma “Ngiyamthanda Umkhulu” kuyisimangaliso esijabulisayo kogogo nomkhulu bakusasa. Ezinye izipho eziqoshiwe noma ama-albhamu ezithombe noGogo noma isisho esifanayo yimibono emihle uma uhamba ngendlela yesipho.
Itimu yeholide isebenza kahle uma uhlela ukutshela umndeni wakho ngesikhathi samaholide. I-bootie yengane ngaphakathi kweqanda le-Easter, isitoko sikaKhisimusi noma i-jack o lantern iyindlela ejabulisayo yokumangaza ugogo nomkhulu namalungu omndeni wesikhathi esizayo ngezindaba.
Kumalungu omndeni nabangane abahlala kude, ungase ufune ukuthumela isimemezelo noma ukubingelela nge-elekthronikhi. Sebenzisa umcabango wakho bese uklama isimemezelo noma isimemezelo se-imeyili ukuze usithumele obathandayo.
Nini Ongakusho:
Kunemibono embalwa ehlukene mayelana nokuthi kufanele utshele nini umndeni nabangane ngomntwana omusha. Isinqumo sikuwe nozakwenu. Eminye imibhangqwana ilinda kuze kudlule i-trimester yokuqala, ngoba ingozi yokukhulelwa kwesisu iyancipha ngalesi sikhathi. Ngokuvamile imibhangqwana eke yaphuphunyelwa yizisu esikhathini esidlule izolinda isikhathi eside ukuze ihlanganyele izindaba okwesibili nxazonke.
Ukulinda kuze kudlule usongo lokuphuphunyelwa yisisu kuzovimbela ukutshela abantu abaningi kangaka izindaba zokuphuphunyelwa kwesisu. Okubi nakakhulu, kuvimbela umngane ukuba akhulume ngengane ngephutha ngoba engazange ezwe ngokulahlekelwa. Ngezinye izikhathi abesifazane bazizwa bekhathele futhi abafuni ukukhuluma ngakho nabo bonke abangani babo nomndeni. Kulokhu, kunengqondo ukulinda.
Mhlawumbe awukwazi ukulinda noma awufuni ukulinda. Lokho kuhle futhi. Ukutshela umndeni nabangane ngomntwana isikhathi esijabulisayo. Eminye imibhangqwana ayikwazi ukulinda ukuyimemeza iphezu kophahla. Kule mibhangqwana, ukutshela ngokushesha kuyisinqumo esingcono kakhulu. Uma kwenzeka bephuphunyelwa yisisu, bazungezwe uthando nokusekelwa. Ekugcineni, kukuwe nomlingani wakho ukwenza isinqumo esingcono kakhulu somndeni wakho omncane omusha.
Yebo, kungcono ukulinda ukuze utshele abantu. Akukho okubi njengokutshela wonke umuntu, bese kufanele wabelane ngezindaba ezibuhlungu kamuva. Ngokukhulelwa okuyingozi enkulu, kungcono ukulinda kuze kube ngemva kwesikrini esiphindwe kathathu kanye ne-ultrasound yezinga II. Yebo, ungatshela umbhangqwana abangani abaseduze namalungu omndeni, kodwa ngokuvamile kungcono ukulinda.