nguJennifer Shakeel
Usanda kuthola ukuthi ukhulelwe, manje uyazibuza ukuthi ngabe uthwele amawele noma cha. Hhayi ukuthi abesifazane abaningi bayazibuza lokhu, ilukuluku noma ukwesaba kuvame ukuvuswa amazwi anjengokuthi, “Hawu! Unesiqiniseko sokuthi awuthwele amawele, ubonakala umkhulu ngendlela okhulelwe ngayo.” Nakuba kubalulekile ukugwema ukushaya lo muntu ongenacala ngempama ebhekise ikhanda ekukhulumeni okunjalo, ziningi izinkomba ongase ube nazo ngokomzimba ezingakunikeza umbono wokuthi injabulo izoba yini noma cha. i-whammy kabili. Sekushiwo lokho, nazi ezinye zezimpawu zokuqala zokukhulelwa kwamawele.
Isici Sesisindo Ngesikhathi Sokukhulelwa
Ngokusobala into yokuqala okufanele uyicabangele ukukhuluphala, thatha kalula ukuthi yilokho okudala ukuphawula kokuqala. Uma ukhulelwe kunesisindo esithile odokotela bakho abalindele ukuthi usithole ngesikhathi ukhulelwe, ngokuvamile okungamakhilogremu angama-20 kuye kwangama-25. Iningi laleso sisindo lizofika ku-trimester yokugcina. Kodwa-ke uma uthwele amawele, lapho-ke usukwi-trimester yesibili uzobe usufinyelele cishe amakhilogremu angama-20 ne-trimester yonke okufanele uhambe.
Ukulinganisa
Uma ulinganisa iminyaka yakho yokukhulelwa ube mkhulu kusho ukuthi uthwele amawele. Kodwa-ke, uma lokhu kungekona ukukhulelwa kwakho kokuqala bese ukala udlulela phambili lokho oyikho kujwayelekile. Ngakho nakuba ungase ube ku-trimester yakho yokuqala futhi usuvele unobunzima bokungena ezingutsheni zakho ezivamile, uma lena kungumntwana wakho wesibili noma wesithathu lokhu kuvamile. Kuyadumaza futhi kuyakhungathekisa, kodwa kujwayelekile.
Ukugula Kwasekuseni
Nakuba kungaba kuhle uma ukugula kwasekuseni kuwuphawu kuphela uma uneziphindaphinda, akunjalo. Iningi labesifazane abakhulelwe bathola ukugula ekuseni, futhi ubunzima buzohluka ngempela ngowesifazane ngamunye. Ngangingenakho okuncane ngeyami yokuqala, ngangigula sonke isikhathi ngeyesibili, futhi lena yesithathu yenze ngisho nomcabango wokudla wangigulisa. Konke obekukhona futhi okuzoba yizingane ezizalwa yedwa.
I-Early Movement
Nakuba umphakathi wezokwelapha ungase ungakusekeli ukuthi abesifazane abathwala iziphindaphinda bazobhekana nokunyakaza kombungu kusenesikhathi bese kuba owesifazane othwele eyodwa kuphela, omama abaningi bathi bake bazwa ukunyakaza ngaphambi kwesikhathi lapho bekhulelwe ngakho kufanele bakwenze. Futhi, uma ungowesifazane ozacile kakhulu uzobona umnyakazo wengane kusenesikhathi, futhi uma ukhulelwe okwesibili noma kwesithathu uzobona umnyakazo kusenesikhathi.
I-Alphafetoprotein
Lokhu ukuhlolwa okukodwa odokotela bakho abazokwenza okungaba inkomba yokuqala yamawele noma amawele amathathu adlulela ngalé kokubonwayo ngokuchaza abadlulayo noma ukuzihlolisisa. I-Alphafetoprotein ikala iphrotheni ekhishwa isibindi se-fetus. Uma kunengane engaphezu kweyodwa ebhodini izinga lamaprotheni egazini likamama liyoba phezulu. Lo mphumela ophezulu ngokuvamile uzoholela ku-ultrasound ukuze kukhishwe noma yikuphi ukungahambi kahle ngengane eyodwa futhi kuqinisekiswe ukuthi kukhona okungaphezu kwalokho.
Ukukhathala
Ukukhulisa ingane ekhulayo kukuqeda amandla, uma uthwele ababili noma ngaphezulu kungenzeka ukuthi uphelelwe amandla. Uma ungumama okokuqala ungase uthambekele kalula ekucabangeni ukuthi yilokho kanye ukukhulelwa okuyikho. Ukukhathala kuyinto evamile, kodwa kusafanele ukwazi ukusebenza futhi uzizwe uvuselelwe ngemva kokulala kancane. Khuluma nodokotela wakho, unake ukuthi ukhathele kangakanani. Ukuzalwa kaningi akusona ukuphela kwesizathu sokukhathala ngokweqile lapho ukhulelwe, kodwa kungaba inkomba enhle.
Ulambile SONKE ISIKHATHI!!
Uzobona ukwanda kwesifiso sokudla ngenkathi ukhulelwe, lokho kungenxa yokuthi umzimba wakho uzodla umntwana kuqala futhi ugcine. Iningi labesifazane lisuke lingazi ukuthi lithwele amawele kuze kube yinyanga yesibili lapho umzimba ukhala ukhala ngokudla. Sula emqondweni wakho ukuthi udla amabili noma amathathu, udla wena ukuze umzimba wakho uhlale unempilo ngokwanele ukusekela nokukhulisa abancane abayigugu abakhula ngaphakathi kuwe.
Udokotela Uvakashela
Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi ukuze kube namawele kumele kube nomlando wamawele emndenini. Sthandwa sami, kukhona okokuqala kukho konke. Khuluma nodokotela wakho mayelana nezimpawu onazo, ungabusi noma yini njengokuthi "ngaphandle nje kokukhulelwa" futhi uthathe lokho njengokujwayelekile. I-alphafetoprotein ukuhlolwa okukodwa ongakwenza, ama-ultrasounds nawo abalulekile, kodwa i-Doppler elula eyenziwa ehhovisi likadokotela eveza ukushaya kwenhliziyo okukabili nayo izokutshela ukuthi uthwele amawele noma cha.
Siyakuhalalisela ngokukhulelwa kwakho! Noma ngabe uthwele oyedwa noma ngaphezulu kwangathi ungajabulela zonke izimanga ezizokulethela ukukhulelwa nokuba ngumama.
UJennifer Shakeel ungumbhali futhi owayengumhlengikazi onolwazi lwezokwelapha olungaphezu kweminyaka eyi-12. Njengomama wezingane ezimbili ezimangalisayo onenye esendleleni, ngilapha ukuze ngihlanganyele nani engikufundile ngokuba umzali kanye nenjabulo nezinguquko ezenzeka ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Ngokubambisana singahleka futhi sikhale futhi sijabule ngokuthi singomama!
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