Ukwesaba ukubeletha kuvamile. Lesi sihloko sichaza okunye kwalokho kwesaba nokuthi yini engenziwa ukuze kuncishiswe lokho kwesaba.
nguPatricia Hughes
Ukwesaba ukubeletha kuvame kakhulu kwabesifazane abakhulelwe. Kunezinhlobonhlobo zezimbangela zokwesaba kwabesifazane, okuhlanganisa ukwesaba ubuhlungu nokwesaba into engaziwa. Ungakunqoba ukwesaba kwakho ukuzalwa futhi uqhubeke nokuba nakho ukuzalwa okwanelisa kakhulu. Ukufunda ngokusebenza ngokuvamile kungasiza ekudambiseni ukwesaba. Ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu, usizo lochwepheshe noma i-hypnosis ingasiza ekususeni ukwesaba.
Ukwesaba kwethu okuningi kungokwesiko. Ngaphambi kokuba kube yinsakavukela umchilo wesidwaba ukubeletha ezibhedlela, abesifazane babebelethela emakhaya abo. Abesifazane abasebasha namantombazane babevame ukuba khona lapho kuzalwa izingane zakwabo ezincane namalungu omndeni. Ngenxa yalokho, bakhula bebheka ukuzalwa njengento engokwemvelo yokuphila hhayi into yokwesaba. Ngesikhathi eshada futhi eba nomntwana, cishe wayeseyibonile imisebenzi eminingi futhi engakwesabi ukuzala owakhe.
Manje, ukuzalwa kwenzeka esibhedlela. Kwabesifazane abaningi, ukuzalwa kwengane yabo kungokokuqala abanakho. Bazi okuncane kakhulu ngenqubo futhi lokhu kwandisa ukwesaba. Ukuzalwa ngokuvamile akubonwa njengento engokwemvelo yokuphila. Lokhu kubangela ukwesaba okwengeziwe. Ukwenezela kule nkinga, abanye abantu banomuzwa wesidingo sokutshela abesifazane abakhulelwe yonke indaba esabekayo abake bayizwa ngokuzalwa. Abanye babonakala begxile ezicini ezingezinhle futhi bezwa isidingo sokuhlanganyela lezi nomama bokuqala.
Ukwesaba ubuhlungu kuyimbangela evamile yokwesaba ukuzalwa. Ukuze ulwe nalokhu kwesaba, funda ngezinketho zakho zokuqeda ubuhlungu. Funda mayelana kokubili izidakamizwa kanye nezindlela zemvelo zokukhulula ubuhlungu. Thatha ikilasi futhi uzijwayeze izindlela ozifundile ukukusiza ukuphatha umsebenzi. Funda mayelana nokuphumula, ukuphefumula, ukubhucunga umzimba kanye nokuphazamiseka ukuze ukwazi ukubhekana nobuhlungu.
Ukuntula ulwazi kunomthelela ekwesabeni ukuzalwa. Funda okuningi ngangokunokwenzeka mayelana nokusikwa ngenkathi ukhulelwe. Ukuthatha ikilasi lokubeletha kuyindlela enhle yokuthola ulwazi. Funda izincwadi mayelana nokusikwa nokuzalwa. Buka amavidiyo okuzalwa ukuze akusize wazi ukuthi yini ongayilindela. Lapho ufunda kabanzi ngokuzalwa, uzoncipha ukwesaba.
Khuluma nabangane abake baba nesipiliyoni esihle sokuzalwa. Uyazi ukuthi obani abantu abalungile empilweni yakho kanye nabantu ababi. Hlukana nabantu abangalungile futhi ukhulume nabantu abalungile empilweni yakho. Ukukhuluma kungasiza ngempela ukunqoba ukwesaba. Uma ungenabo abangani ongaxoxa nabo, chitha isikhathi ukhuluma nomyeni wakho noma udokotela. Uma wesaba kakhulu, cabanga izikhathi ezimbalwa nomeluleki ukuze akusize unqobe ukwesaba.
Bhala uhlelo lokuzalwa lwakho oluzayo. Njengoba ufunda ngokuzalwa, uzothuthukisa imibono ethile mayelana nohlobo lwesipiliyoni sokuzalwa oyifunayo. Ukubhala uhlelo kuzokusiza ucabange ngalokho okufunayo nalokho ofuna ukukugwema. Ukubhala izifiso zakho phansi kungakunika amandla kakhulu. Yabelana ngohlelo lwakho nodokotela wakho.
Thatha uhambo lwesibhedlela lapho ingane yakho izozalelwa khona. Uma wenza amakilasi okuzalwa kwengane yakho kuleso sibhedlela, ukuvakasha kungase kufakwe. Uma kungenjalo, shayela futhi ucele ukuvakasha. Lokhu kuzokunika ithuba lokubuza imibuzo futhi ubone ukuthi ingane yakho izozalelwa kuphi. Uzothola umuzwa wendawo ohambeni. Lokhu kungasiza ukukhulula ukwesaba kokungaziwa futhi kukwenze uzizwe ungcono.
Cabangela ukuthatha i-hypnosis yesifundo sokuzalwa kwengane. Lokhu kungakusiza ukuba unqobe ukwesaba kwakho futhi kunciphise ubuhlungu obuzwayo ngesikhathi sokubeletha. Ungathatha ikilasi nge-hypnotherapist eqinisekisiwe. I-inthanethi iyindawo enhle yokuthola odokotela endaweni yangakini. Cela udokotela wakho noma uthisha wakho wokuzalwa ukuze akudlulisele. Izifundo zasekhaya zitholakala ngeCD. Lezi zinga-odwa ku-inthanethi.
Biography
UPatricia Hughes ungumbhali ozisebenzelayo nomama wezingane ezine. UPatricia uneziqu zeBachelor in Elementary Education azithola eFlorida Atlantic University. Ubhale kabanzi ngokukhulelwa, ukubeletha, ukukhulisa izingane kanye nokuncelisa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ubhale mayelana nokuhlotshiswa kwekhaya kanye nokuhamba.
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