nguPatricia Hughes
Isinqumo esisodwa okuzodingeka usithathe ngesikhathi ukhulelwe ukuthi uhlale ekhaya noma ubuyele emsebenzini ngemva kokuzalwa kwengane. Lesi isinqumo somuntu siqu okufanele umbhangqwana ngamunye usenze. Abesifazane abaningi bazizwa becindezelwa ukuba bahlale ekhaya noma baye emsebenzini. Nguwe kuphela owaziyo ukuthi yini elungele umndeni wakho.
Kwabanye besifazane, ukukhetha kunqunywa yizimali. Uma ungeke ukwazi ukuyithola ngeholo elilodwa, kungase kudingeke ubuyele emsebenzini. Kwabanye besifazane, isinqumo sisekelwe ezicathulweni ezingokomzwelo. Abanye bathola ukwaneliseka ngokuhlala omama emakhaya. Abanye besifazane badinga ukusebenzelana nokukhuthazwa okuvela ngokusebenza ngaphandle kwekhaya, noma ngabe basebenza ngokugcwele noma ngokwetoho.
Izinto Okufanele Uzicabange Njengomama Osebenzayo
Kunezinzuzo kwabesifazane abaningi ngokugcina umsebenzi wabo ngemva kokuzalwa kwengane. Abanye besifazane bathola ukukhuthazwa komsebenzi wokuziphilisa kubalulekile. Imali eyengeziwe imnandi emndenini wakho futhi ingase idingeke ukuze ukwazi ukuziphilisa. Uma ufuna ukusebenza, kodwa ungacabangi ukuthi ungakwazi ukuphatha umsebenzi wesikhathi esigcwele kanye nengane encane, kukhona ezinye izinketho. Ungase ukwazi ukusebenza isikhathi esithile. Isikhathi esivumelanayo, ukwabelana ngomsebenzi kanye nokuxhumana ngocingo yizindlela ongaqhubeka ngazo emsebenzini wakho futhi ube nesikhathi sengane yakho.
Isithiyo esikhulu komama abasebenzayo yicala abavame ukulizwa. Imizwa yecala ivamile, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi usebenza noma uhlala ekhaya. Othile uzohlala engabaza ukukhetha kwakho futhi akubuze wena ngokwakho. Ungase uzame ukunxephezela ngokuba umama ophelele nesisebenzi esiphelele ngesikhathi esifanayo. Lokhu akunakwenzeka futhi kuzokushiya uzizwa ungafaneleki. Ukuthola ukulingana okuhle kubalulekile empilweni yakho engokomzwelo.
Zinike isikhathi sokujwayela indima entsha njengomama osebenzayo. Yenza isimiso sosuku noma ikhalenda ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi imisebenzi ebalulekile iyenziwa emsebenzini nasekhaya. Cela oshade naye akusize ngeminye yemisebenzi okudingeka yenziwe. Cabangela ukuqasha umuntu ohlanzayo ukuthi angene kanye noma kabili ngenyanga ukuze asize endlini. Lokhu kungase kukususe ingcindezi njengoba ujwayela indlela yakho yokuphila entsha. Zinike isikhathi sokuxhumana nomntwana nowakwakho ekupheleni kosuku.
Ukuba ngumama osebenzayo kungaba nomthelela emsebenzini wakho. Ungashintshela esikhathini esithile noma ungatholakali isikhathi esengeziwe njengoba wawunjalo ngaphambi kokuba umntwana azalwe. Lokhu kungase kuthinte amathuba akho okukhushulwa esikhundleni noma kushintshe indlela umqashi wakho akubheka ngayo. Ngezinye izikhathi lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi “Kuthrekhi Yomama.” Ukuze uqashelwe emsebenzini, yenza okwengeziwe uma ukwazi. Lokhu kungaba yizikhathi zasebusuku, ukuya enkomfeni, noma ukuya nomsebenzi ekhaya kanye nawe. Unganakwa ngaphandle kokudela ukuphila komndeni wakho.
Izinto Okumele Uzicabange Njengomama Wokuhlala Ekhaya
Ziningi izinzuzo zokuba sekhaya nezingane zakho. Ukhona for ingane zonke izinsuku. Ngeke uphuthelwe uma ekhasa okokuqala, isinyathelo sakhe sokuqala noma umuzwe ethi “Mama” okokuqala ngqa. Ungumnakekeli oyinhloko, hhayi isisebenzi sasenkulisa noma umgadi wezingane noma ngisho noGogo. Abesifazane abaningi bathola lokhu kugcwaliseka futhi abakwazi ukucabanga ukuthi akekho kuwo wonke amatshe angamamayela.
Abanye omama bakuthola kunzima ukusuka emsebenzini wesikhathi esigcwele ukuya kumama wesikhathi esigcwele. Ungase uzizwe unesizungu ukunakekela ingane nokuhlanza indlu nsuku zonke. Abanye besifazane bathola lokhu kuntuleka kokukhuthazwa kubacindezela. Kunezinto eziningi ongazenza ukuze uhlale usebenza ngenkathi usahleli nengane yakho ekhaya. Cabangela ukuthatha ikilasi ekolishi lomphakathi wangakini, ikilasi lokuzivocavoca, ikilasi le-ceramics noma ukujoyina iklabhu yezincwadi. Lokhu kuzokunikeza isikhathi kude nengane futhi kukuvumela ukuthi uzenzele izinto ezithandwa nguwe.
Uma unesizungu, cabanga ukujoyina iqembu lomama. Ziningi izindlela zokuxhumana nabanye omama. Iqembu lokudlala liwumqondo omuhle. Uma ungayitholi endaweni yangakini, cabanga ukuqala eyakho. Umntwana angase abe mncane kakhulu ukuba angadlala, kodwa udinga ukwakha abangane. Kubalulekile ukuthi uxhumane nabanye abantu abadala futhi uchithe isikhathi ukhuluma nabanye omama. Ipaki ingenye indawo enhle yokuhlangana nomama abanezingane ezineminyaka elingana neyakho.
Uma ukhumbula abangani bakho emsebenzini, yenza umzamo wokuxhumana. Ungashayela noma uthumele ama-imeyili ukuze uhlale uxhumane. Cabangela idethi yesidlo sasemini ngezikhathi ezithile. Lokhu kuzokunika ithuba lokuhlala uthintana futhi uhambisane nayo yonke inhlebo. Uzothola nethuba lokuchitha isikhathi engxoxweni yabantu abadala engahlanganise lutho nezingane.
Abanye besifazane bazizwa bengabalulekile uma beyeka ukusebenza. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi uma wawuphila kahle ngaphambi kokuba umntwana azalwe. Ungase ube nomuzwa wokuthi awunikeleli ekhaya. Ungase ucasuke ukucela umyeni wakho ukuthi akusebenzisele imali. Uma kunjalo, cabangelani ukuba nesabelo komunye nomunye wenu. Ngale ndlela nonke ninemali eningayisebenzisa ngaphandle kokuthi nicele ukuthenga konke.
Yenza uhlu lwalokho okwenzayo nsuku zonke. Hlanganisa nokunakekela ingane kanye neminye imisebenzi oyenzayo endlini. Bhala phansi ukuthi kungani ngayinye yalezi zinto ibalulekile emndenini wakho. Lokhu kuzokusiza ukuthi ubone ukubaluleka kokwenzayo. Ungase uqale ukubona ukuhlala ekhaya njengomsebenzi wangempela. Ufaka isandla empilweni yengane yakho nomndeni wakho.
Biography
UPatricia Hughes ungumbhali ozisebenzelayo nomama wezingane ezine. UPatricia uneziqu zeBachelor in Elementary Education azithola eFlorida Atlantic University. Ubhale kabanzi ngokukhulelwa, ukubeletha, ukukhulisa izingane kanye nokuncelisa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ubhale mayelana nokuhlotshiswa kwekhaya kanye nokuhamba.
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