Ingabe Uyawadinga Ngempela Amakilasi Okubeletha?

nguJennifer Shakeel

Amakilasi okubeletha amakilasi alabo abalindele futhi inhloso yekilasi ukufundisa umama olindele lokho okufanele akulindele ngesikhathi sokubeletha nokubeletha. Bakufundisa izindlela ezahlukene zokulawula ubuhlungu njengokuphefumula noma imithi noma i-hypnotherapy. Umgomo wabo uwukunikeza umama ukuzethemba ukuthi angakwenza lokhu. Lawa makilasi ajwayele ukufakwa izibhedlela, ungawathola esibhedlela ohlelele ukuletha kuso, kodwa akubona bonke omama abakhulelwe abathatha amakilasi. Okubangela umbuzo, ingabe uyalidinga ngempela ikilasi ngaphambi kokuba ube nomntwana?

Ayikho ngempela impendulo elula kulo mbuzo. Lokho kungenxa yokuthi umntwana uyeza noma uyawafunda noma cha, akufani nokuthi kufanele uthathe ikilasi ukuze uthole umntwana. Kuyindaba yokuthi ufuna ukulungela kahle kangakanani okuzokwenzeka ngesikhathi sokubeletha nokubeletha. Amakilasi akulungiselela umsebenzi ojwayelekile kanye nokulethwa… akusho ukuthi umsebenzi wakho nokulethwa kwakho.

Unenketho uma kuziwa emakilasini okubeletha ongase uwathathe. Kunezinhlobonhlobo zamakilasi ongawathatha. Nawa amakilasi amane okungenzeka:

Lamaze Class, empeleni uma ucabanga ngekilasi lokuzala lena eyokuqala efika engqondweni. Esikhathini esingengakanani esidlule kwakuwukuphela kohlobo lwekilasi olwalukhona. I-Lamaze ilwela ukwandisa ukuzethemba kwakho ngekhono lakho lokubeletha. Lapha uzofunda amasu ahlukene okubhekana nawo ukubhekana nokufinyela nokuphusha. Inkolelo yeLamaze iwukuthi noma yimuphi umuntu wesifazane unelungelo lokubeletha ngaphandle kokuphazanyiswa kokungenelela kwezokwelapha, kodwa ababukeli phansi labo abakhetha ukusebenzisa imishanguzo yokudambisa izinhlungu noma okunye ukungenelela.

Khona-ke kukhona Indlela kaBradley. Inhloso ye-Bradley Method ukuthi igcizelela ukubaluleka kokubeletha ngokwemvelo. Ikilasi lenzelwe umuntu uqobo futhi lidlulela phezu kwakho konke kusukela ekuzilolongeni ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kuya ekudleni kuya ekunakekelweni kwangemva kokubeletha ngisho nasekunceliseni ibele.

I-HypnoBirthing yikilasi elisha nelaziwa kancane. Inhloso yekilasi ukukufundisa ukuthi ugxile ekubeni nokubeletha okukhululekile nokungokwemvelo. (Ngokwami ​​ngiyawuhleka umcabango wokuzalwa kwengane ukhululekile. Ngangingeyena umuntu omemezayo, angikaze ngibize umyeni wami ngamagama… kodwa ngeke ngisho ukuthi ngiseduze nalapho ngikhululekile.) Le ndlela ikufundisa ukuthi, ngaphandle kokwesaba. kanye nokushuba, noma izimo zezokwelapha ezikhethekile, ubuhlungu obukhulu akudingekile ukuba buhambisane nomhelo. Ithemba ukukhulula abazali ekwesabeni ukuzala futhi bathembe imizwelo yemvelo.

Ikilasi elilodwa engicabanga ukuthi bonke abazali kufanele balithathe I-CPR encane. Akekho owake wafuna ukucabanga ngokudinga lokhu, kodwa kuyikhono elihle kakhulu ukwazi nokuba nalo. Ikilasi le-CPR lingathathwa endaweni yangakini ye-Red Cross, esibhedlela noma esikhungweni sekilasi lokuzalwa. Umfundisi oqinisekisiwe uzokufundisa ukuthi yini okufanele uyenze uma ingane yakho iklinywa noma inganyakazi noma iphefumula.

Ukuthi ukhethe ukuthatha ikilasi noma cha kuzoba kuwe ngokuphelele. Ungenza ucwaningo ekhaya, ku-inthanethi noma ufunde incwadi emtatsheni wezincwadi. Kodwa uma ufuna indawo engakunikeza ochwepheshe abangaphendula imibuzo yakho khona-ke ukubheka ekilasini lokuzala kuwumqondo omuhle. Kungenzeka uyazibuza ukuthi ngenzeni njengonesi.

Ngengane yami yokuqala, eminyakeni eyi-15 edlule manje… ngathatha ikilasi leLamaze. Sabuka ifilimu yabesifazane ababili ababeletha… sazilolongela ukuphefumula futhi basebenza nomyeni wami ngendlela yokungeseka ngokusikwa nokubeletha. Kwakumnandi; empeleni ingxenye engcono kakhulu kwakungabanye ofunda nabo. Ayikho into ehlekisa njengokuhlaliswa kwabesifazane abakhulelwe abayi-10 phansi ubabukele bezama ukusukuma. Kuba ngcono… Ngangisikwa futhi ngingazi. Ngaya esibhedlela, ukusebenza kanzima kwathatha imizuzu engu-35 futhi kwakukhona indodakazi yami yokuqala. Ingabe kukhona engikufundile ekilasini engikusebenzise? Cha, konke lokho kwasuka ekhanda lami ngesikhathi sokufinyela lapho kufanele ngiphushe.