Amathiphu Omqeqeshi Wezabasebenzi

Njengomqeqeshi wezabasebenzi, unendima ebalulekile ngosuku olukhulu. Udinga ukuba khona ukuze umeseke ngesikhathi sokubeletha. Funda okuningi ngangokunokwenzeka mayelana nokusikwa nokuzalwa kwengane ukuze ube umqeqeshi osebenza kahle kakhulu ongaba nguye. Kunzima ukusho ukuthi uzodingani ngesikhathi sokubeletha. Qaphela ukuthi bonke abesifazane bahlukile futhi bakulungele ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zakhe. Lezi zidingo zingashintsha izikhathi eziningi kuyo yonke inqubo.  

Indlela engcono kakhulu yokuba umqeqeshi wezabasebenzi ophumelelayo ukufundiswa ngokuzalwa kwengane. Hamba naye emakilasini okubeletha ngesikhathi sokubeletha. Yenza umzamo wokuba khona kuwo wonke amakilasi. Uzothola ulwazi olubalulekile mayelana nomsebenzi phakathi kwala makilasi. Uzofunda amasu anhlobonhlobo okumsiza ukuthi alawule izinhlungu zokubeletha. Kubalulekile ukuzijwayeza lezi zindlela phakathi kwamaseshini kuze kufike osukwini lokuzalwa.  

Ziningi ezinye izindlela zokufunda mayelana nokusikwa kanye [ne-tag-tec]ukubeletha[/tag-tec]. Funda izincwadi ezimbalwa eziphathelene nokuzalwa kwengane yemvelo. Buka amavidiyo okuzalwa ukuze akusize wazi ukuthi yini ongayilindela. Uma uzifundisa futhi ufunde mayelana nenqubo yokuzalwa, uzoba umqeqeshi ophumelelayo. Uma wazi okwengeziwe ngokuzalwa kanye nezinqubo ezivamile, uyolungela kangcono ukumeseka nokuxhumana nabasebenzi. Uma unemibuzo, ungesabi ukubuza.  

Chitha isikhathi esithile ukhuluma naye ngalokho akulindele ekuzalweni komntwana. Thola ukuthi ufunani ekuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe kokuzalwa. Bhalani ndawonye uhlelo lokuzalwa. Lena indlela enhle yokufunda ngezinqubo ezivamile eziyingxenye yokubeletha. Kubalulekile ukuthi ujwayelane nohlelo lwakhe lokuzalwa. Kuyoba umsebenzi wakho ukuxhumana nabasebenzi futhi ummele. Lokhu kuzoba lula ukukwenza uma ujwayelene nohlelo futhi ubamba iqhaza ekulubhaleni.  

Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi ukusebenza kuthatha isikhathi. Ngokokuqala ngqa umama, lokhu kungahluka kusuka emahoreni ayishumi kuya kwamashumi amabili noma ngaphezulu. Kuthelevishini, abesifazane bagijimela esibhedlela ekufinyezweni kokuqala futhi babelethe isikhashana kamuva. Lokhu akwenzeki empilweni yangempela. Eqinisweni, kungase kube usuku lonke noma ubusuku. Iningi labesifazane lichitha ingxenye yokuqala yomsebenzi ekhaya, okungaba amahora ambalwa ngaphambi kokuya esibhedlela.  

Uma ekucasukela noma ekuthuka, zama ukuthi ungathukutheli. Akaqondile. [tag-self]I-Labor[/tag-self] inzima futhi owesifazane ngamunye usabela ngendlela ehlukile. Abanye besifazane bangena ngaphakathi futhi bakhetha ukuthula. Abanye bangase bacasuke ngesinye isikhathi futhi bangase bakuthethise. Ungakufaki enhliziyweni.  

Umsebenzi wakho omkhulu uwukuba umsize futhi umsekele ngesikhathi sokubeletha. Sebenzisa zonke izindlela zokuphumula nezokuphefumula ozifunde ekilasini lakho lokuzalwa. Bekumele uzijwayeze lokhu ngaphambi kokuzalwa. Uma eqala ukwehluleka ukulawula, msize aphinde agxile ekugxiliseni kwakhe ingqondo. Phakamisa ukushintsha izindawo, ukuphefumula, ukubhucunga umzimba nokusebenzisa umculo ukuze umsize akhululeke. Uma esebenzisa izindlela zokuphumula, mbheke ukuze abone izimpawu zokushuba futhi umkhumbuze ukuthi akhululeke lezo zindawo. Amqinise amduduze.  

Zama ukuguquguquka. Qaphela ukuthi izinto azihambi ngokohlelo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kunzima ukwazi ukuthi yini ezosebenza ngomsebenzi wokuqala. Angase acabange ukuthi uzofuna ukubhucungwa ngenxa yobuhlungu, kodwa angase angafuni ukuthi umthinte. Ekuqaleni kokubeletha angase afune ukubhucungwa, bese enquma ukuthi uyakuzonda kamuva. Lokhu kungase kushintshe izikhathi eziningi phakathi nomsebenzi, ngithembe. Vele uhambe ngokugeleza futhi ulandele izinkomba zakhe.  

Omunye wemisebenzi yakho ebaluleke kakhulu kuzoba ukubeka isikhathi [i-tag-ice]contractions[/tag-ice] yakhe. Ukuze wenze lokhu, uzodinga iwashi ngesandla sesibili. Ungaqali ukwenza isikhathi ngokufinyezwa kokuqala. Lokhu kungase kube nengcindezi. Linda kuze kube yilapho umsebenzi usuqalile ukuze uqale ukubeka isikhathi. Izifinyezo zinqunywa kusukela ekuqaleni kokunye kuya ekuqaleni kokulandelayo. Isibonelo, uma ukufinyela okukodwa kuqala ngo-5:10 futhi okulandelayo ngo-5:15, ukufinyela kuhlukana ngemizuzu emihlanu. Buka isandla sesibili ukuze ulinganise ubude bokufinyela ngakunye. Gcina irekhodi elibhaliwe lokufinyela likadokotela noma umbelethisi. 

Omunye wemithwalo yakho yemfanelo obalulekile kuyoba ukuxhumana nezisebenzi zasesibhedlela. Uzodinga ukuthola izibuyekezo ngenqubekelaphambili yakhe futhi udlulisele izifiso zakhe. Kuyoba umsebenzi wakho ukulandela uhlelo lwakhe lokuzalwa futhi uzame ukugcina yonke into ihamba ngokohlelo lwakhe. Kunezikhathi lapho lokhu kungase kungenzeki, ngenxa yenkinga, kodwa yenza okusemandleni akho. Ungesabi ukubuza imibuzo mayelana nomsebenzi wakhe noma izinqubo zokwelashwa. Ngeke abe nakusiphi isimo sokuzikhulumela, kwenzele yena.  

Cishe uzochitha isikhathi esithile esibhedlela noma esikhungweni sokubeletha, ngakho woza uzilungiselele. Pakisha isikhwama nganoma yini ongase uyidinge ngesikhathi sakho lapho. Ezinye izinto ongaziletha zihlanganisa: ukudla okulula neziphuzo, ukushintsha izingubo, ushintshi wefoni noma umakhalekhukhwini, ikhamera enefilimu namabhethri, isixubho nesiqedaphunga. Faka nesambatho sokugeza uma kwenzeka engena emanzini futhi efuna ukuba nawe lapho.  

Biography UPatricia Hughes ungumbhali ozisebenzelayo nomama wezingane ezine. UPatricia uneziqu zeBachelor in Elementary Education azithola eFlorida Atlantic University. Ubhale kabanzi ngokukhulelwa, ukubeletha, ukukhulisa izingane kanye nokuncelisa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ubhale mayelana nokuhlotshiswa kwekhaya kanye nokuhamba.

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