Uhlelo lokuzalwa luyincwadi ebhaliwe esiza owesifazane ukuveza izifiso zakhe zokusikwa nokubeletha. Akuqinisekisi ukuthi akukho okungalindelekile okuzokwenzeka, kodwa kudala icebo labo bonke abathintekayo ukwenza lokhu kube okuhlangenwe nakho umama anomuzwa wokuthi kuzoba ngcono kakhulu kuyena nomntwana. Uzokwabelana ngalokho okubhalayo nethimba lokuzalwa elisiza ekubelethweni nasekubelethweni. Uma ubhala uhlelo lwakho lokuzalwa malubonise ubuntu bakho, ukuthi ayini amathemba akho nezinhlelo zakho, ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngokuzalwa. Isu lakho lohlelo lokuzalwa akulona nje uhlu lwalokho okufunayo kodwa liyindlela yokuthi wonke umuntu asebenze ndawonye.
Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukubhala uhlelo lwakho lokuzalwa cishe uzobe usufunde okuningi mayelana nokubeletha kanye nolwazi abanye abaye baba nalo ekubelethweni. Kufanele ubeke izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu kuwe mayelana nokuzalwa phezulu ohlwini, noma uzidwebele noma usebenzise i-highlighter. Uma usunohlu olugculisayo, lubhale noma lubhale ngobunono. Isibonelo sezinto ongazibandakanya kungaba isifiso sokugwema izidakamizwa, kanye ne-epistemology noma ungase uthi ufisa ukukwazi ukuhamba ngesikhathi sokubeletha. Kwesinye isikhathi asikutholi konke esikufunayo, kodwa uma, ngokwesibonelo into ebaluleke kakhulu yakho kuwukungahlukaniswa nengane yakho ngemva kokuzalwa, futhi lokho kwenzeka, ubelethe ngempumelelo.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungumzali wokuqala, noma lokhu ukukhulelwa kwesibili noma kwesithathu, cishe unombono othile mayelana nokuthi yini oyifunayo kusukela kokuhlangenwe nakho kokubeletha. Isu lohlelo lokuzalwa yindawo lapho ongabhala khona ukuthi ufuna ukuzalwa ngokwemvelo, ngezidakamizwa ezincane noma ezingekho. Ungase futhi ucacise ukuthi uyayifuna imithi, nokuthi yimiphi eyamukelekayo. Uma uthatha lezi zinqumo ngaphambi kokuba uqale umsebenzi, wenza kanjalo ngomqondo ocacile. Uhlelo lokuzalwa olubhaliwe luyakukhulumela uma umatasa kakhulu ukuthi ungakwazi ukukhuluma ngesikhathi sokufinyela. Hlala wazi ukuthi ukulethwa kungahamba ngezindlela ezingalindelekile, futhi kwenze kucace ukuthi uyakuqonda lokhu. Iqembu lokuzalwa akuyena omelene nawe, uzofuna ukuqiniseka ukuthi bayaqonda ukuthi uyazi ukuthi bazokwenza konke okusemandleni abo, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi izinto zihlukile kunalokho obukuhlele.Isikhathi esihle sokubhala uhlelo lwakho lokuzalwa lubhalwe cishe ku-trimester yesibili yokukhulelwa kwakho, ukuze ulungele uma nje uzosikwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Miningi imibuzo okufanele icatshangelwe. Isu elibhaliwe lohlelo lokuzalwa likuvumela ukuthi usho ukuthi ufuna umlingani wakho eceleni kwakho, noma cha. Iyakukhulumela lapho ungakwazi ukuzikhulumela. Kunciphisa amathuba okukhohlwa into ebaluleke kakhulu kuwe. Uma ugxila ezindabeni ezibalulekile kuwena, ngisho noma umsebenzi wakho uhamba ngendlela ehluke ngokuphelele kunaleyo obuyihlelile, usengazizwa ujabule ngomsebenzi kanye nokulethwa kwawo uma kubhekwa izinto onomuzwa wokuthi zibalulekile.
Umqondo wohlelo lokuzalwa olubhaliwe uphume enqubweni yokubeletha yemvelo, kodwa awukhawulelwe nangayiphi indlela komama abafuna ukubeletha ngokwemvelo. Yindawo yokucacisa ukuthi ubani ofakwe egunjini labasebenzi, yiziphi izinqubo ezilungile. Uma kungekona ukukhulelwa kokuqala, futhi ungazange waneliseke ngesipiliyoni sakho sokuzalwa kwengane yokuqala, bhala uhlelo lokuzalwa lwalokhu kukhulelwa. Ingabe uhlela ukuba ne-C Section? Uhlelo lokuzalwa lusawusizo. Ungacacisa ukuthi uzakwenu noma umqeqeshi angase abe nawe ngesikhathi sokulethwa. Uma ungathanda ungacela ukuthi ingane yakho entsha ibekwe ngokushesha esifubeni sakho, noma uhlale ekamelweni. Uhlelo lokuzalwa likuvumela ukuthi uzicacisele ukuthi yini oyilindele kulwazi lwakho lokuzalwa.
Uhlelo lwakho lokuzalwa aluyona incwadi yomthetho, futhi uma izinto zingahambi kahle futhi kunezinkinga ezingalindelekile, kungenzeka ukuthi ngeke zilandelwe. Ngokubhala uhlelo lokuzalwa uyazi ukuthi yini ebalulekile kuwe nengane yakho engakazalwa.
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