nguPatricia Hughes
Umntwana uyaqhubeka nokukhula ngokushesha. Manje sekuyisibungu. Ekupheleni kwale nyanga, umntwana usecishe abe ngamasentimitha amathathu nengxenye ubude. Ingane inesisindo esingamagremu ayishumi nanye kuphela. Ikhanda licishe lilingane nohhafu womzimba ekupheleni kwenyanga.
Inhliziyo manje inamagumbi amane. Izinga lokushaya kwenhliziyo yengane lingahluka kusuka ku-120 kuya ku-160 beats ngomzuzu. Abanye abantu bathi izinga lokushaya kwenhliziyo yengane lingasetshenziswa ukubikezela ubulili. Lokhu kungaba mnandi, kodwa akuthembeki ngaso sonke isikhathi. Okwamanje, uzodinga ukulinda futhi ucabange nje ingane. Izitho zangasese ziyabumba, kodwa zincane kakhulu ukuthi zingabonakala ku-ultrasound.
Izici ziyaqhubeka nokwakheka futhi umbungu uqala ukufana nomntwana. Amehlo ayabumbana futhi ingane isiyakwazi ukuvula amajwabu amehlo. Izindlebe ziyakha. Izintambo zezwi nazo ziqala ukukhula kule nyanga. Ekupheleni kwenyanga, iminwe nezinzwane zingabonakala. Ingane inyakazisa izingalo nemilenze. Usemncane kakhulu, ngakho-ke ngeke uzwe noma yikuphi kwalokhu kunyakaza.
Inkaba yakheke ngokuphelele ekupheleni kwale nyanga. Amathumbu angaphandle kwenkaba, kunokuba abe ngaphakathi kwesisu somntwana. Ingane incane kangangokuthi ayilingani.
Izimpawu zomzimba ozobhekana nazo ziyafana nenyanga yesibili. Ungase uzizwe ukhathele, ube nesicanucanu kanye nokuthambile kwebele. Qhubeka uthole ukuphumula okuningi. Uma unesifo sasekuseni, zama ukuvuka kancane ekuseni. Abanye besifazane bathola ukuthi ukudla ama-crackers noma ubhontshisi owomile kanye ne-ginger ale kuyasiza ekucanuzeleni. Ungazama namasongo okugula olwandle, njengalawo asetshenziswa ezikebheni.
Ungase uqale ukuzwa izinguquko ezengeziwe zomzimba kule nyanga. Izingubo zakho zingase ziqale ukukumpintsha okhalweni. Amabele akho ayakhula futhi ungase uqale ukubona imithambo kuwo. Imithambo ingase ibonakale nasesiswini nasemilenzeni. Lokhu kubangelwa ukwanda kwegazi lakho.
Abesifazane bangase babe nemizwa eminingi ehlukahlukene. Abanye besifazane bathola umuzwa wokuzola nokuthula ngalesi sikhathi. Abanye besifazane bangase bazizwe bezwela futhi bashintshe ekubeni nenjabulo baye ekubeni novalo ngekusasa. Ungase umangale ukuthi le mizwa ingashintsha ngokushesha kangakanani. Lo mehluko ujwayelekile futhi ubangelwa izinguquko zamahomoni.
Lesi yisikhathi esihle sokuthi uqale ucabange ngokuzalwa komntwana. Ufunani ngolwazi lwakho lokuzalwa? Lesi yisikhathi esihle sokuqala ukufunda nokubuka amavidiyo mayelana nokukhulelwa, ukusikwa nokuzalwa. Ulwazi luzokunikeza umuzwa walokho okufunayo nongakufuni.
Uhlobo lokuzalwa olufunayo lungasiza ekunqumeni uhlobo lwezifundo zokuzalwa kwengane ozithathayo. Amakilasi avame kakhulu uBradley noLamaze. Khuluma nodokotela wakho, umbelethisi, abangani kanye namalungu omndeni mayelana namakilasi atholakala emphakathini wakini. Shayela futhi ukhulume nothisha mayelana nekilasi ngaphambi kokuthi ubhalise. Buza ukuthi yini efundiswayo kanye nefilosofi eyisisekelo efundiswa ekilasini.
UPatricia Hughes ungumbhali ozisebenzelayo nomama wezingane ezine. UPatricia uneziqu zeBachelor in Elementary Education azithola eFlorida Atlantic University. Ubhale kabanzi ngokukhulelwa, ukubeletha, ukukhulisa izingane kanye nokuncelisa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ubhale mayelana nokuhlotshiswa kwekhaya kanye nokuhamba.
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