nguPatricia Hughes
Umbungu uyaqhubeka nokukhula ngesivinini esimangalisayo. Izitho zangaphakathi ziyakhiwa futhi ziyaqhubeka nokuvuthwa. Izicubu ziyakhula kule nyanga. Ukunyakaza nokukhahlela kwengane kuhle kulokhu kukhula. Ingane iphenduka ngapha nangapha. Angase ashintshe kusukela ekhanda aye phezulu aye ezindaweni eziphansi njalo.
Amaphedi eminwe nezinzwane ayakhula. Izigxivizo zeminwe eziyingqayizivele zengane yakho ziyakheka nakule nyanga. Amazinyo engane ayakha ezinsinini. Izici zobuso ziyaqhubeka nokukhula kule nyanga. Izinkophe namashiya seziqala ukukhula. Ubulili bomntwana manje sebubonakala ku-ultrasound. Uma ingane iyintombazane, amaqanda akhe ayakha ngaphakathi kwamaqanda akhe.
Isikhumba somntwana sibomvu futhi sishwabene. Ingane incane, kodwa manje isibukeka njengomuntu. Umbungu nawo ugqolozele ukuzenzisa okosana olusha. Uzothuswa umsindo omkhulu ngaphandle kwesibeletho. Useqala ukuba nemijikelezo evamile yokulala nokuhlala ephapheme. Ekupheleni kwenyanga ingane iba nesisindo esingama-ounces ayishumi futhi ingamasentimitha ayisishiyagalolunye ubude.
Ungase uqhubeke uzizwa unomdlandla kule nyanga. Ukugula kwasekuseni isinyamalele iningi labesifazane. Isisu sakho sesiqala ukubonakala ukhulelwe. Uma uzizwa ugula kakhulu ukuthi ungakwazi ukuzivocavoca ngesikhathi ukhulelwe, ungase unqume ukuqala manje. Hlala ukhuluma nodokotela wakho ngaphambi kokuqala noma yiluphi uhlelo lokuzivocavoca.
Thola okuthile okunomthelela omncane futhi okujabulelayo. Hamba ngezinyawo ngemva kwesidlo sakusihlwa njalo ebusuku. A yoga yabantwana ikilasi lingaphumula futhi libe nempilo. Ezinye zezikhundla nokuphefumula okusetshenziswe ku-yoga kungase kube usizo nasemsebenzini. Ukubhukuda kungenye indlela enhle kwabesifazane abakhulelwe. Ukunyakaziswa kwemvelo emanzini kusiza ekwehliseni ingcindezi ekuhambeni kwesikhathi [umaka-ikati]ekukhulelwa[/i-tag-tec]. Ukubhukuda kusebenzisa imisipha futhi kuwumsebenzi we-cardio.
Cishe ubulokhu ucabanga kakhulu ngosuku ingane yakho ezalwa ngayo. Kungenzeka ukuthi wenza imibono eqondile mayelana nolwazi lokuzalwa olufunela wena nengane yakho. Cabangela ukubhala uhlelo lokuzalwa ukuze ucacise izifiso zakho ngesikhathi sokubeletha.
Ezinye izinto ezifakwe ohlelweni lokuzalwa zihlanganisa ulwazi lokuthi ufuna ukusikwa kanjani, umoya osegumbini, ukuqapha ingane, uketshezi lwe-IV kanye nokuqeda izinhlungu. Faka ulwazi mayelana nalokho okufunayo endaweni ngayinye kulezi. Khumbula ukuthi ezinye izinto zingenzeka ezinciphisa ukukhetha kwakho. Uma inkinga engaba khona itholwa ngokuqapha ngezikhathi ezithile, ukuqapha okuqhubekayo kungase kudingeke.
Cabangela isikhathi ngemva nje kokuzalwa komntwana. Ufuna kwenzekeni? Ubani ozonqamula intambo? Lona ngokuvamile ubaba noma udokotela. Buza umlingani wakho ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngokusika intambo. Uyafuna ukuthi umntwana abekwe esiswini sakho ngemva kokuzalwa? Uma uhlela ukuncelisa, faka ulwazi ngohlelo lokuzalwa. Ngokufanelekile, umntwana kufanele abe nesikhathi ebeleni phakathi nemizuzu yokuqala engamashumi amathathu ngemva kokuzalwa.
Izinqubo ezihlukahlukene zingenziwa enganeni. Lokhu kuyehluka kuye ngesifunda. Inqubo evamile ukufaka amaconsi e-eye e-antibiotic emehlweni omntwana ngokushesha ngemva kokuzalwa. I-Vitamin K shots nayo ijwayelekile. Lezi zisetshenziswa uma kwenzeka ingane inenkinga yokujiya kwegazi. Kwezinye izimo, lezi zingabambezeleka isikhathi esifushane ukuze abazali bahlangane nomntwana. Amathonsi enza ukubona komntwana kufiphale futhi abanye abazali bafuna isikhathi sokubuka emehlweni omntwana ngaphambi kokuba kunikezwe amathonsi.
Cabanga ngalokho okufunayo ohlelweni lwakho lokuzalwa. Uma unemibuzo, qiniseka ukuthi ubuza udokotela lapho uhlola. Isibonelo, uma ucabangela izinketho zokuqapha ingane, cela udokotela ngemicabango yakhe. Imibuzo embalwa emihle ingakutshela okuningi mayelana nokuthi udokotela uzokweseka kangakanani mayelana nokukhetha kwakho.
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UPatricia Hughes ungumbhali ozisebenzelayo nomama wezingane ezine. UPatricia uneziqu zeBachelor in Elementary Education azithola eFlorida Atlantic University. Ubhale kabanzi ngokukhulelwa, ukubeletha, ukukhulisa izingane kanye nokuncelisa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ubhale mayelana nokuhlotshiswa kwekhaya kanye nokuhamba.
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