Ukulungiselela Izingane Ukufika Komntwana

nguPatricia Hughes

Ukwamukela usana olusha emndenini kungase kucindezele izingane ezincane. Lolu wushintsho olukhulu lwempilo enganeni yakho, obekuyisizinda sokunaka kwakho kusukela ekuzalweni kwayo. Ingane yakho idinga isikhathi ukuze ilungiselele lolu shintsho. Ungasiza ingane yakho ukuthi ijwayelane nendima yokuba umfowenu noma udadewenu ngokufunda futhi ukhulume ngezingane ezisanda kuzalwa njalo.

Vumela isikhathi esiningi sokulungiselela ingane yakho ukufika kwengane yakini. Ngeke ufune ukutshela ingane yakho umzuzu owulindele lapho ufunda, kodwa nikeza ingane yakho izinyanga ezimbalwa ukuze ijwayele umqondo wo[tag-tec]baby[/tag-tec] omusha. Iminyaka yengane yakho ingesinye isici ekunqumeni ukuthi uzozixoxa nini izindaba. Lapho befunda ngomntwana kusenesikhathi, izinyanga zingadonsa ngesikhathi zisalinde umntwana.

Chitha isikhathi ufunda izincwadi ezikhuluma ngezingane. Thola unodoli wengane futhi uvumele ingane yakho ijwayelane namanabukeni nokugqokisa ingane. Sebenzisa unodoli ukukhombisa indlela efanele yokubamba umntwana. Khuluma ngokunakwa kwezingane. Lokhu kusiza ingane yakho ukuthi ifunde ukuthi izingane zithembele kubazali bazo kukho konke. Lokhu kungasiza ngezinkinga [ze-tag-ice]zomona[/i-tag-ice] ngemva kokufika komntwana.

Vumela ingane yakho isize ilungele ingane entsha. Dlulisa amehlo kumakhathalogi futhi uyothengela ingane. Vumela ingane yakho endala yenze isinqumo esikhulu, njengokukhetha ingubo yokuqala yengane noma ukusiza ukukhetha itimu yenkulisa. Lokhu kuyosiza ingane yakho ukuba ijabule ngomntwana futhi kuyoyisiza ukuba nomuzwa wokuthi inendima ebalulekile emalungiselelweni. Lokhu kukhulisa ukuzethemba kwakhe futhi kumsize azizwe ezethemba.

Bandakanya ingane yakho endala [ekukhulelweni kwe-tag-cat][/tag-cat]. Uma ingane yakho iya nawe ekuvakasheni kokubeletha, ukukhulelwa ngeke kube yimfihlakalo enjalo. Izingane ziyakuthanda ukuzwa ukushaya kwenhliziyo kwezingane zakubo lapho zivakashele ngaphambi kokubeletha. Amantombazane ami ahlale ejabule uma sekuyisikhathi se-ultrasound. Bafinyelela “ekuboneni” umntwana futhi bathole ukuthi banomfowabo noma udadewabo.

Ezinye izibhedlela zinamakilasi ezingane eziyizelamani zezingane ezindala. Lawa makilasi angaba mnandi futhi asize ingane yakho ilungiselele indima yokuba ubhuti omkhulu noma usisi omkhulu. Emakilasini amaningi, izingane zibuka ifilimu mayelana nokuba nomntwana omusha endlini. Umfundisi uzosebenzisa unodoli ukuze abonise izingane ukuthi umntwana omusha kufanele abanjwe kanjani.

Inzuzo eyengeziwe yamakilasi amaningi ukuvakasha ewodini lababelethayo. Ingane yakho izobona igumbi elifana nalelo lapho umntwana ezozalelwa khona kanye negumbi elifana naleli ozohlala kulo ngenkathi usesibhedlela. Izingane zingase zikwazi ukulunguza enkulisa esanda kuzalwa futhi zingase zibone nomntwana omusha. Lapho kufika isikhathi sokuba uye esibhedlela, ingane yakho iyobe iwazi umqondo. Lapho efika ezovakashela wena nomntwana, angase azizwe ekhululekile.

Usana olusanda kuzalwa lunakwa kakhulu. Izivakashi zifika ziphethe izipho zelungu elisha lomndeni [/tag-self]. Lokhu kungenza ezinye izingane zizizwe zishiywe ngaphandle. Cabangela ukuthenga izipho ezimbalwa ezincane bese uzigoqa. Ungakwazi ukunikeza ingane yakho isipho esincane lapho unomuzwa wokuthi idinga ukunakwa noma lapho izipho zifika kumntwana. Izinto zezandla nezincwadi zemisebenzi ezincane zizogcina ingane yakho ijabulile futhi ikunikeze imizuzu embalwa yokuphumula nomntwana. Incwadi yezindaba iyisinqumo esihle. Ungakwazi ukugoqa kusofa nengane nengane yakho ufunde ngenkathi uncelisa ingane.