Ingabe kuyoba umfana noma intombazane? Abesifazane abanezingane namuhla banenketho onina nogogo babo ababengenayo, bangathola ubulili bengane ngaphambi kokuba izalwe. Ingabe kufanele umangale noma cha?
Ingabe kuyoba umfana noma intombazane? Abesifazane abanezingane namuhla banenketho onina nogogo ababengenayo, bangathola ubulili bengane ngaphambi kokuba izalwe. Kuwo wonke umlando wesintu, omama kwadingeka balinde kuze kube yilapho umntwana ezalwa ukuze bathole ubulili. Ngokuhlolwa okufana ne-ultrasound ne-amniocentesis, ungafunda ubulili bengane ngenkathi usakhulelwe.Ingabe Kufanele Uthole Noma Umangale?
Njengoba usuku lwe-ultrasound lusondela, cishe uzobe ucabanga ngomntwana futhi uzibuza ngobulili. Uzobuzwa ngesikhathi sokuhlolwa ukuthi uyafuna yini ukwazi ubulili. Xoxa ngale ndaba ngaphambi kwe-ultrasound. Isikhathi sokwenza isinqumo singaphambi kokuba ulele etafuleni noma phakathi nokuhlolwa. Uma ungakasithathi isinqumo, ungacela uchwepheshe ukuthi akubhale phansi futhi akunamathisele emvilophini. Kamuva ungabheka, uma ufuna ukuthola.
Eminye imibhangqwana ithanda ukuthola lokho ngoba izizwa isondelene nengane lapho ibazi ubulili. Ungabiza umntwana ngegama noma ugxile ebulilini obubodwa lapho ukhetha amagama ezingane. Uma ubazi ubulili futhi wabelana ngalolu lwazi nezivakashi zakho zeshawa, uthola izingubo eziningi ezinhle ezifanele ingane, kunenqwaba yabantu bokulala abaphuzi nokuluhlaza.
Eminye imibhangqwana ikhetha ukumangala futhi ayifuni ukwazi ubulili. Uma ukhetha le ndlela, ungase ucasule izihlobo zakho. Umama nomamezala wakho kungenzeka ukuthi bayafa ukwazi ubulili ukuze baqale ukuthenga. Izithandani ezimbalwa ziba nokungqubuzana lapho omunye umlingani efuna ukwazi ubulili kanti omunye akabazi. Uchwepheshe angase atshele umzali ofuna ukwazi, kodwa hhayi omunye umzali. Uma ukhetha lo mzila, uzodinga ukuthi uzame kanzima ukuze ungavumeli ikati liphume esikhwameni.
Ukuthola Ubulili Ngobuchwepheshe Bezokwelapha
Isikhathi esingcono kakhulu sokuthola ubulili bomntwana ngokusebenzisa i-ultrasound cishe amasonto ayishumi nesishiyagalombili kuya kwamashumi amabili. Lesi yisikhathi lapho abesifazane abaningi benza i-ultrasound. Ngokusho kwe-American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology, phakathi kwamaphesenti angamashumi ayisithupha namashumi ayisikhombisa abesifazane abakhulelwe banokuhlolwa kwe-ultrasound [/tag-tec]. Kungase kulinge ukuba ne-ultrasound ukuze nje uthole ubulili, kodwa lokhu akunconywa yi-ACOG. I-Ultrasound kufanele isetshenziswe kuphela uma kunesidingo sokwelashwa.
I-amniocentesis inembe kakhulu ekunqumeni ubulili bomntwana. Ukuhlolwa kunembile ngaphezu kwama-99% ekunqumeni ubulili. Kodwa-ke, lokhu kuhlolwa akwenzelwa nje ukuthola ubulili bomntwana. Kukhona ingozi yephesenti elilodwa kuya kwamabili okuphuphunyelwa yisisu ngama-amniocentese. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, kufanele kwenziwe kuphela uma kunesidingo.
Okunye Ukuhlola Ubulili Okujabulisayo
Kunezinganekwane eziningi zamakhosikazi amadala nezinye izindlela ezijabulisayo zokunquma ubulili. Nakuba bungekho ubufakazi bezokwelapha bokuthi noma yikuphi kwalokhu kunembile, kumnandi kakhulu. Okunye kungase kusekelwe kancane kwezokwelapha, njengokuxhumana phakathi [kwethegi-ice]isilinganiso senhliziyo yengane[/tag-ice] nobulili. Kuthiwa amantombazane anenhliziyo ephakeme kakhulu kunezingane zabafana. Ukushaya kwenhliziyo kwamantombazane kufanele kube ngaphezu kwe-150, kanti abafana basondele ku-140. Abanye besifazane bafunga ngalokhu kanti abanye odokotela bayavumelana. Ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwami, akuzange kubambe iqiniso. Umfana wami waba nenhliziyo efana neyodadewabo abathathu abadala.
Eminye Imidlalo Ejabulisayo Yobulili:
- Ikhalenda Lenyanga YaseShayina isebenzisa inyanga yokukhulelwa kanye neminyaka kamama ukunquma ubulili. Uthola inyanga yakho yokukhulelwa kanye neminyaka futhi ishadi lizokutshela ukuthi unomfana noma intombazane.
- Uyithwele kanjani ingane kuthiwa wumkhondo wobulili. Uma uqhuba phambili, kuthiwa ingane yomfana. Uma ukhuluphala ezinqeni nasezinqeni, ingane izoba yintombazane.
- Ukugula kwasekuseni kuthiwa kungenye inkomba. Uma unesifo sasekuseni, umntwana uzoba intombazane.
- Ukudla okufisayo kucatshangwa ukuthi iyinkomba. Uma uhalela usawoti, ngumfana. Uma uhalela amaswidi, ingane izoba intombazane.
- Ukuhlolwa kwenaliti kuhlanganisa ukuhlohla inaliti futhi uyibambe phezu kwesisu sakho. Uma inyakaza ibheke eceleni, ingane iyintombazane. Uma inaliti ihamba emibuthanweni, kuyoba umfana.
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