ndi Jennifer Shakeel
Imodzi mwa nthawi zosangalatsa kwambiri m'moyo wa mkazi ndikukhala mayi. Mutha kukhala ndi chidwi cholemba mimba yanu, makamaka ngati iyi ndi yanu yoyamba. Izi zingapangitse amayi ambiri kukayikira njira yabwino yochitira izi. Yankho kwenikweni lidalira inu. Ngati ndinu mtundu waluso mungasangalale kupanga scrapbook. Ngati mulibe nthawi kapena chikhumbo chopanga china chake chomveka bwino, ndiye kuti kulemba ndi kulemba malingaliro anu mu diary kungakhale kalembedwe kanu. Kapena mungasankhe kuchita zonse ziwiri!
Kumbukirani kuti zolemba zanu za mimba / scrapbook ndizosiyana ndi bukhu la ana. Izi zidzakhala zonse za inu. Kutengera nthawi yomwe muli ndi pakati mukuyamba pulojekitiyi zidzadalira momwe bukhu lanu lidzakhalire. Mwachitsanzo ngati mukuyamba izi mutangodziwa kuti muli ndi pakati mukhoza kuphatikizapo chithunzi chanu mimba isanayambe, mwinamwake ngakhale kopi ya mayeso a mimba kapena zotsatira zoyesa. Inemwini, ndimakonda kulemba, koma ndikupatsani malangizo asanu ndi limodzi ofulumira amomwe mungapangire memento yanu yabwino yoyembekezera.
Langizo Loyamba: Yambani Posachedwa M'malo mwake Kenako Kenako.
Tonsefe timakonda kukhulupirira kuti sitidzaiwala chilichonse chokhudza mimba yathu, makamaka ngati ndi yoyamba. Komabe, nditengereni kwa ine mumatha kukumbukira mphindi zazikulu ndikuyiwala zonse zazing'ono zofunika. Mwachitsanzo mudzakumbukira tsiku loyamba la msambo wanu womaliza, ndipo mwina mudzakumbukira momwe munadziwira kuti munali ndi pakati, koma tsikulo lidzakhala losautsa pang’ono. Ngati mukufuna kukumbukira zonse zokhudza tsikulo lembani mwamsanga. Mudzadabwitsidwa zomwe ngakhale miyezi ingapo idzachita kukukumbukirani.
Langizo Lachiwiri: Tengani Zithunzi
Kaya mukupanga scrapbooking kapena zolemba, zithunzi zidzakuthandizani kukumbukira ndipo zidzakuthandizani kunena zomwe simungapeze mawuwo. Mwachitsanzo, tsiku limene mumagula chinthu choyamba cha mwana wanu, ine ndi mwamuna wanga tinalirira ngakhale chachitatu, nthawi zina kufotokoza izo m'mawu kumachotsa nthawi. Chithunzi chokhala ndi mawu ofulumira ngakhale akunena zonse popanda kuwononga.
Mfundo Yachitatu: Khalani Oona Mtima
Inenso ndimaseka nsonga iyi, koma ndi yabwino. Muyenera kukumbukira kuti mukukupangirani bukuli ndipo mwina tsiku lina mwana wanu atakula kwathunthu ndikukonzekera kukhala ndi mwana wawo woyamba mudzamupatsa bukuli, choncho khalani oona mtima. Matenda am'mawa… sizosangalatsa. Kuonda… palibenso chosangalatsa. Padzakhala masiku omwe mungafunse chifukwa chake padziko lapansi mudaganiza zopanga izi, ndipo ndikhulupirireni kuti mudzalandira chikumbutso chachangu koma zonse ndizoyenera kulemba. Mudzaseka mukayang'ana m'mbuyo ndikuwerenga ndipo mwana wanu adzayamikira kuti kukayikira konse ndi mafunso ndi malingaliro omwe akukhala nawo.
Langizo Lachinayi: Phatikizani Zambiri
Lembani zizindikiro zoyamba zomwe munakumana nazo komanso nthawi yake. Zomwe munachita kuti muwachotse. Dziyeseni nokha kuti muwerenge momwe mukukulira. Nthawi yoyamba munamva kusuntha kwa mwana. Tsatirani zoyendera za dokotala ndi zomwe mwaphunzira kapena kumva kapena kuwona pamaulendowo.
Langizo Lachisanu: Ikani Zithunzi Za Ultrasound Mu
Kutengera ndi momwe zinthu ziliri, mutha kukhala ndi ultrasound yambiri, chifukwa cha mimba yanga yachitatu ndakhala ndi zaka 7. Tengani zithunzizo ndikulemba kukula kwa ana mkati mwanu. Ndizosangalatsa kuyang'ana mmbuyo zomwe mwana watuluka. Tsamba loyamba mu onse a ana anga chithunzi chimbale anadzipereka awo ultrasound chithunzi, monga kudzakhala ndi wachitatu.
Langizo Lachisanu ndi chimodzi: Jambulani Baby Shower
Chimodzi mwazinthu zazikulu zapakati pa mimba ndi Baby Shower. Onetsetsani kuti mumasunga kuyitanidwa, mindandanda ya alendo, masewera omwe amasewera, chakudya, mphatso, momwe mumamvera panthawi yosamba. Nthawi zina mukakhala ndi pakati ma hormones amakankhira mkati ndipo mudzapeza kuti zinthu zopusa zimakupangitsani kukhala okhudzidwa kwambiri. Lembani za izo, ziphatikizeni mu scrapbook kapena magazini yanu.
Iyi ndi mimba yanu, ndikofunika kuti muzitsatira momwe mukufunira. Zilibe kanthu ngati ndi scrapbook, diary, kapena magazini cholinga chake ndikungokuthandizani kukumbukira momwe zinalili. Mudzapeza kuti padzakhala masiku ovuta ngati mayi watsopano, pamene mudzadabwa chifukwa chake munachitira izi, mutakhumudwa, mukakhala pansi ... zingatenge zaka zingapo ndipo mutayamba kuganiza kapena osati mudzakhala ndi mwana wina. Muzochitika zonsezi kutha kutulutsa magazini kapena scrapbook ndikukumbukira momwe kukhala ndi pakati kunali kokongola.
Ndikuganiza kuti anali Erma Bombeck yemwe ananena bwino mutazindikira kuti akufa ndi khansa. Analemba mndandanda wa zomwe angachite ngati atakhala ndi mwayi woganizira zomwe angasinthe. Chimodzi mwa zinthu zomwe angafune kuti asinthe moyo wake ndikusintha moyo wake, chinali kukhala ndi pakati.
Izi ndi zomwe ananena, "M'malo molakalaka miyezi isanu ndi inayi yokhala ndi pakati, ndikanakonda mphindi iliyonse ndikuzindikira kuti zodabwitsa zomwe zinali mkati mwanga ndi mwayi wokhawo m'moyo wothandiza Mulungu mozizwitsa.
Jennifer Shakeel ndi wolemba komanso namwino wakale wazaka zopitilira 12 zakuchipatala. Monga mayi wa ana awiri odabwitsa ndi mmodzi ali panjira, ndabwera kudzagawana nanu zomwe ndaphunzira zokhudza kulera ndi chisangalalo ndi kusintha komwe kumachitika pa nthawi ya mimba. Pamodzi tikhoza kuseka ndi kulira ndi kusangalala kuti ndife amayi!
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